Whether to return gifts if the love is over?

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Ended New Year holidays.Nadar people to each other any good.And now with the quarrels and partings are asking the natural question: "Return the gifts or not?»

Return private property departing lover, definitely need.That he then did not sing under the balcony as Pyotr Mamonov, heartbreaking song: "Give my things and the green, remember the coat."And all this must be returned as soon as possible, of course, if the separation is not just another farce, as Ross and Rachel from the TV series "Friends" - Ross demanded back his shirt, though it barely covers his navel.

But personalized gifts - is another matter.Is it necessary to give a modest silver ring her boyfriend if she did not insist on the return of shaving foam?Do I have to throw it in the face of the chinchilla fur coat or keys to the jeep?(However, such expensive gifts girl despite the legends get from their boyfriends so rarely that we should not even mention them. And these girls are special, they are rarely read, so it's not about them.) But ringlets us mere Russian the women,yet presented sometimes give notebooks, shoes and coffee makers.So bring it back when we parted, or not?There must be some rules about the material show.

Of course, most of the female audience will decide not to return.Still, it was gratuitous gifts, not values ​​in the room deposit box at a time."It seems that the return gift - it's like to cross out the moment when it was presented, and the feelings that were associated with it - will tell you to any girl.- Like, we just did not work, so nothing had happened.And it was. "

«This some ridicule own love, mocking himself in the past.Let the gifts remain with those who gave them, because the past is still there.It is somewhere there, you love each other and gave from the heart, "- adds another.

These words, of course, correct and beautiful.But sometimes anger just turned off the mind.Then the girl thrown from the balcony of the collection of teddy bears, "Hey, you down there!Take your zoo! "- Remove the donated shoes and walk barefoot on the pavement, demanding the return of the shirt:" This is my mother passed your birthday, I do not want you to wear them! "Men send sms with the words" Give the book! ", Takehas started a bottle of perfume, tear off the walls of paintings and rummage in the cupboard, "Where is the blouse I bought you for February 14?" And the reason I think there is one - when parting want as much as possible to annoy your ex-partner.According to the principle: "Let me not be bad to you!»

Oh, this anger.First, citizens have taken their former gifts, and then not know what to do with them, because to see all these things, too, there are no forces.It would be desirable in the manner that offended the guy from the movie "Girls" to crush gold watch, which has returned girlfriend.As if things are to blame for the fact that people could not.

«I wasted on you" - this simple thought at parting show many girls.Humiliated, frustrated, we want to show only one thing: it was all in vain, so I'm angry.I'm wasting my time, effort, money, kisses, smiles.Everything, everything down the drain.It hurts.I feel bad.I regret that at all to do with you.

Perhaps, then, when anger back down, we will be ashamed of their actions.We understand that we must be thankful for the good things still happened.After all, it is much more expensive watches, shirts and wooden planks.But we, as children, we want to return to the private use of the fact that so generously handed out: emotions, oaths, night, love.But we can only steal something tangible, palpable.So stupid Orem: "Give my stuff!" Bring anything, since my heart still belongs to you, you bastard.

Articles Source: psylive.ru