Modesty - lack of desire for honor .A man may not be able to avoid the honors, but this in no way speaks about his indiscretion.Marie Curie-Sklodowska first ever double Nobel laureate.In 1910, she succeeded in isolating pure metallic radium.Thus it was completed a 12-year cycle of hard work hazardous to life.Out of modesty, she did not even patented the results of his research.Maria claimed: "Radium should not enrich anyone.This element belongs to the whole world. "During the First World War Maria led the radiological service Red Cross Society and she traveled to the front-line hospitals.She learned to drive a car, and if necessary, become a car mechanic.As a teenager, she courageously endured the cold attics, then unsuitable for laboratory barn she spent laborious experiments, and during the First World War, with its usual calmness and modesty, became a soldier.It honored the world, but she never had the desire for honor and glory.
What is immodesty, a man who seeks to honor?It focuses attention on itself, behaving mannered, talking loudly, with pathos and commanding tone of voice, brightly dressed, showing jealousy and so forth. Immodesty as a manifestation of pride constantly come into antagonism with others, which leads to suffering and pain.When a person is not talking earnestly, with pathos, people consciously or unconsciously resist his indiscretion.The risk of conflict, and that the pain and suffering.Immodesty ego encounters the massive ego of others.
Unlike indiscretion modesty is always in a state of peace, that is, her mind calm.Soothe - it's peace of mind, that is the mind of man is not excited pacified his ego, he is always alone.Humble people - first of all, pacified people .Not quiet, but it was peaceful.Quiet people may be far more modest: in the still waters run deep.
indiscreet person deprived of "candy" honors, feels envy.Immodesty without honors grimaces and comes from envy.Modesty is calm, unassuming, always doing his duty well and honorably and without them.Immodesty, if beckon honors, will perform their duties, and it would never do his duty selflessly.Lack of humility - a burning desire for honors.Immodesty is not stable, without remuneration, privileges and honors it unusable.In other words, with immodest person has a lot of problems: it does not work consistently, conflicts with people, it is not respected.If the team was healthy, with the appearance of his indiscretion will corrode envy.
Humility - is the quality of the person, which manifests itself respect themselves and not in relation to other people .It differs from humility.Humility means victory over anger, a person perceives all incoming information to humbly criticize or praise it - it will be equally responsive humbly.Humility - the highest quality of a holy person, it automatically implies the existence of modesty.Modesty does not have to be humble.If modesty berate, insult, to bring to the "white hot", it can not survive and anger erupt.She is indifferent to praise, honors, gifts, but when offend its dignity, it too can "stand on its hind legs."In other words, humility - is the lack of anger, and humility - a lack of desire to honor.Modesty - is a necessary step to humility.
modesty unlike indiscretion knows how to listen, to accept new .Immodesty is not able to listen.Active listening involves humility.This quality of the person opposite of pride, so indiscretion can not claim it.For example, a young provincial came to Moscow to conquer the world of science.His main motivation becomes, for example, obtaining academic titles and degrees, to achieve material prosperity, honor and glory.Science for him is not a goal but a means of enrichment.Angry and hungry, he furiously gnaws granite science.Gradually, accumulated knowledge, he "settle down" - he becomes a candidate and then a doctor of sciences.With the tail's pride that he knew more than others, growing, activated his selfishness.Gradually, the human ego gets to the mind, and he begins to feel omniscient, the most intelligent and indispensable.This means that modesty is lost, the ability to continue to develop, improve, progress - lost.When he was humble, he could listen to other people, to learn from them.It was then that he was happy.But because his motives were purely selfish of knowledge and to the knowledge of the truth had the most long-distance relationship, he "cut off the oxygen itself."Leaving on baggage of past achievements, he is puffed up in front of everyone, trying to prove their importance.Even their "home", he pulls out his egoism.Riley's wife tells him: "You can pose as a genius in front of students, and in the family behave naturally.Marsh out the garbage, until I got on a stupid bald head. "In other words, a person who has lost humility, suffering life fiasco.
example of modesty and at the same time was a true scientist Michael Faraday.He never sought nor riches, nor honors, but for his services he was elected an honorary member of more than seventy scientific societies and academies.His work marked a new era in physics, and he did not take the patent for his invention, repeatedly refusing lucrative posts, promising him a fabulous income.He refused, and the nobility, saying: "Thank you, but I want to be called simply - Michael Faraday."
When human mind is defiled by selfishness, he can not convey their thoughts and knowledge to other people.As the great director Stanislavsky: "Do not believe it!" When a person is in pride, he can not explain to people.He did not understand.Paradoxically, a lot of knowledge, but no good there.Modesty is humble, it does not add anything of themselves to assimilate truth.If she made a scientific discovery - it will be a "value-added" to the same knowledge.Knowledge of modesty is internalized by people, because it is a pure unselfish mind.Modesty is able to explain, because it is not nervous when people do not understand, but still patiently welcoming the form to express their point of view.
true scientist modest and devoid of pride, he does not need honor and glory.For example, Pierre Curie and Marie Curie, when they came to worldwide recognition, and is not thought to enjoy fame, they were more concerned that the granting of the State Laboratory was delayed from year to year due to a lack of money and bureaucracy.When the Dean of the Faculty of Natural Sciences, Pierre said that he wanted to present it to the Order, the scientist said, "Please, be kind enough to convey to the Minister that I have no need for the order, but rather looking at the laboratory."And when in 1903 the Curie received from the Royal Society gold medal, then gave her little daughter as a toy.Scientists do not even have patented a method of obtaining radium, believing that such a commercial approach to the discovery contrary to the spirit of science.
modesty ability to listen and hear the other person, is extremely important for the relationship.If the spouses listen to each other's opinions, then the family is a unified whole, so it is based on mutual respect.Egoist listens to nobody, and nobody wants to listen.And how important it is for a politician to listen to the opinions of others, to understand and accept the views of his advisers.
dough on modesty is praise. immodest, expecting honors spreads the praise, it is on a pedestal, bronzoveet eyes.She was not able to hide his reaction to the praise, because so wanted to amuse his pride.Smoothie Area can always find the soul of indiscretion.Humility, on the contrary, is indifferent to the praise.
If the vast majority of composers in his life passionately sought glory, the Debussy - on the contrary.He never in his life been on their own productions of operas and rejected the fame that came to him at the end of life.Well, about his music, he always said modestly: "If God did not love my music, I would not write ...»
Modesty is the opposite of arrogance.Have you ever heard of a modest insolent or impudent humility?Of course not, because they are two different poles.These two qualities form a scale, "Modesty - Chutzpah", where a person is at a particular point.When a person becomes a party to the manifested modesty, we believe such a person humble.Modesty is certainly the quality of a holy person.The ordinary man - a fraction, the numerator of which is in modesty, and the denominator - the audacity.Anatole France said, "In all ought to comply with the measure, even in humility."People listened to his advice to minimize the numerator.By modesty person goes successively: "I indiscreet people.I'm probably a modest man.I'm a very humble person.I, of course, the most humble people.I am an ordinary man. "Giuseppe Verdi once said, "When I was eighteen, I thought I was a great and said:" I am. "When I was twenty-five years, I began to say: "I and Mozart."
When I turned forty, I said: "Mozart and me."Now I say "Mozart".That's the way we go to modesty.
real and not ostentatious modesty attracts reasonableness .For example, a modest girl wants to get married.It will not be tacky dress and behave arrogantly.She needs a responsible, reasonable man, not to be arrogant of painted doll, and modest wife.Like attracts like.Insolent girl will attract the attention of men who are interested in her body, but not the inner world.Anyone who is interested in her mind - it is a sensible man, and one who caught only her body - it will not give a precise definition, and so it is understandable.The price of such a marriage - ruble beam on market day.If she defiantly refuses to attention (honors) on the part of the other sex is shy or not?No.If she is happy to note is shy or not?Also no.If she does not pay attention to the views of men, it is shy or not?Yes, it is modesty, it is manifested in a person, not outside.Modesty in itself - it is an internal purity and the ability to store and protect the purity.Humility - the most powerful weapon women.
between intelligence and modesty, there directly proportional relationship .Reason modest man is not burdened by pride, so he sees the objects of the external world without prejudice and selfishness.Immodesty is "dirty" minds.Its ambitious ego makes true false knowledge, seasoning their fair share of selfishness.Reason immodesty is in ignorance, it is entirely subordinated to the whims of a bloated ego.
Modesty is not inclined to find in others deficiencies .This is a fundamental property of this quality.Humility Is a person, thinking, "This is a good man."If the defect on the surface, shy said: "It's okay.Little things in life.All the same, will not leave you because you are good. "Why is this happening?From the fact that humility is not envy the man.One can envy the position of another person, that he did not read.Envy causes irritation and anger at another person, causing talk about it in the black.If I have another man honors, he begins to condemn the immodesty, gossip.She wants to reverence, as it is not respected.Then she begins to seek out weaknesses in the other person.In short, jealousy - a sign of a lack of modesty.
Modesty lives in harmony with the desires and possibilities, it is not pretentious and restrained .She abhorrent extravagance, luxury and lust detrimental.Modesty, going to the store, buy only what is planned.It does not distract any bait.Immodesty, full of desire, and will buy what you need and do not need.Therefore modesty faster indiscretion comes to financial goals.
external object is achieved through the implementation of internal targets. What does it mean?The internal goal is to cultivate one's good qualities of the person and then the external objectives are implemented automatically.For example, the husband wants his wife and children be respected.This is an external target.Forcing yourself to respect, give gifts, blame - all this hopeless way.In "Eugene Onegin" uncle "to respect themselves and got better I could not invent."In our times, would say, "gave the oak", "The Bucket List", "glued fins" or "skates threw."It is understood that this embodiment is not suitable.If it is put inside the goal - to become a responsible person and is working towards this goal, the result will not take long.Women respect a man responsible.Sensing the change in the behavior of the father and husband, his family will change the attitude towards it for the better.
Modesty does not cultivate a desire as quickly as possible to learn something in the material world.Its principle - all the time.Unpretentiousness modesty means to respect the passage of time.She knows that she will be with all the time."Do not jump out of his pants, so will not reach the target, I get all that I deserve" - sure modesty.Do benign his business out of a sense of duty, and the result will come.Therefore modesty is experiencing peace.She is aware that it needs external purchases as a means to an end.If they currently can not afford it, then, and her other goal.Quietly perceiving this reality, modesty, at the same time, she realizes that she and another purpose, God has other plans for her.She understands that she has more luck, it does not need to anticipate, it comes from inside, not outside.She does not give excessive importance of the objects of the external world, so its objectives are achieved quickly and easily.Immodesty, seeking to fulfill their desires, will spend all of their nervous resources, get a heart attack ten times, spoil relationships with loved ones, but the goals did not reach.Greed urges indiscretion: "What is all the time?Grab faster. "
Modesty sincerely interested in others, respect for socially accepted norms of morality and ethics.It gives freedom from vanity, provides the opportunity to learn from others, adopting their dignity.
for modest human characteristic is another positive quality - he not intrusive in dealing .If he sees that someone is talking to them, not satisfied, it will try to get away from the contact.Modesty does not cause trouble to others their behavior.Modesty is not to be confused with the downtrodden and softness.On modesty "not a train," "do not sit on her head."Modesty - is, above all, developed sense of self-esteem. clogged arises from the fear of losing her husband, the work that others will treat her badly.Modesty is impossible for anything to pick up, it does not sit on the neck, it has a purpose, and so it can always politely refused.She would not do something that violates her move to the goal.In achieving the goal of modesty manifests self-esteem.
