We know that a person has a sense of territory, the need to have a skin area around it.This shell may be different from the narrow shell of a city apartment to a larger space, including the yard and the house of a man who lives in a suburban neighborhood, and to the wide open spaces, which enjoys a villager.
need for personal space invasion and resistance to it is so strong that, even in a crowd, everyone demands a certain percentage of the space and is ready to vigorously defend its zone.According to research by psychologists, it is just one of eighty people, which made the invasion of space, asking "offender" to move away.The rest of the resort to body language to convey his displeasure, and then try to escape.
There is a body language that a person uses when his personal territory is subject to invasion.Even before people get up and leave the territory, he begins to give signals: rocking or tapping foot, rocking from side to side.This is the first voltage signals, and they read as follows: "You're too close. Your presence makes me worry."
next series of signals: eyes closed, chin closer to your chest, shoulders lowered below and push forward a little.All these signs say: "Go away. I do not want you there was. You invaded my space."
signal that consistently send the aggressors, reads: "You are nobody, and so I can invade your space. You do not mean."
Such a signal is sent to the head of the body language in business conversation between him and a subordinate can demoralize the last and be useful for the boss.Such a signal confirming the superiority of his superiors.In a crowded subway car signals can be read in a different way.An important condition for staying in public transport is to ignore the identity of other people.Once on the intimate distance from each other, people actually have to deny the alien presence.It is believed that the person who applies to the other in a crowded train, commits an act of bad taste.
converse is also true: in the rarefied atmosphere of attitude to man as essentially impersonal will cause him annoyance.J.
. Fast, "Body Language. How to understand a foreigner without the words"
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