depression - one of the most destructive.And, unfortunately, not so rare.Especially often it happens in women.That they take delight in the terrible hours of solitude: "How to live?How to live, if you're no use to anybody?Maybe it's better then not to live at all? »
A new love will help him forget ...
Honestly, this is a rhetorical question.A person may not be absolutely necessary to anyone in extremely rare situations.Make sure there is someone on the ground who need to communicate with you.But you yourself reject this communication or underestimate him."How to live, if you're no use to anybody?" - Asks the usual one that realizes that not all need something to only one, but significant for her man.And it hurts to realize at any age: the age of fifteen and twenty-eight, forty-five and sixty-three ... To help in this case can only follow the adage: "Fight fire."That is, it should be at this time to buck up and go to "conquer new frontiers."Fresh infatuation, new feelings, which appeared likely to dull the pain of the beloved, and planted in the soul understanding that woman again loved, needed, demanded.And forget about the question: "How to live, if you're no use to anybody?»
Male look at the problem of loneliness and female
But somebody thought about why the question formulated in this form: "How to liveif you're no use to anybody? ", not so:" How to live, if you're no use to anyone? "Why do women suffer from loneliness more acutely than men?But this occurs most often because it is the fairer sex are projecting all their inner world to elect.In men, beside love, there are usually other priorities, such as career, friends, hobbies.So that this does not happen to you, you - a woman - is to take care of herself.You should not "dissolve" in his favorite without a trace.It should also secure the rear: active lifestyle after marriage, to go beyond the interests of the family, not to lose friends, have hobbies, to strive for self-improvement, reading, going to the theater, go to festivals and sporting events.It is impossible in any case to prevent the loss of the meaning of life!There is not nothing more precious than life - and to you it is granted.So, you - have chosen one, and not some kind of ungrateful and unworthy of your death, but God himself.
death of a loved one - the most difficult test
Another question when near and dear person dies.This loss is difficult to accept, it is difficult to understand.Especially painful when children lose their mother ... who devoted themselves to their children after their death feels that now is not the meaning of life.But in this situation, the above tips help offered.Easier to survive the loss of those with children except in life had other interests: favorite work, hobbies, friends, work.But if life is at sunset, and all of the vents woman lost how to be in this case?Then we apply the position of "like cures."No, in this situation, no one is advised to look for a lover, although this option is not excluded.But there is a way to "survive" as an aid to those who are worse than you.Lost Souls often find a way to help people with disabilities, abandoned animals, the suffering of care, affection, love.Those obogreesh you in difficult times, to answer such a vivid sense of the response that loneliness recede into the background.And now it appears in the fate of the one whom you really need.Love, and be loved by the will!
