In most cases, there is an inferiority complex in early childhood and then pursues human life, as well as children's fears with which an adult is difficult to fight.Inadvertently said a word to the child in the presence of his appearance, abilities, character traits can be the cornerstone on which subsequently build strong inferiority complex.Sometimes a single word, but imagine the situation when it happens several times a day and lasts for more than one year?Not surprisingly, people even in somewhat accustomed to this state of inferiority, insecurity, and it is easier to leave everything as is, do not fight, you do not lose what little he has at the moment.
On the other hand, it is an inferiority complex pushes many people to reach new heights in your career, education, the arts and so on.What then is it wrong?What kind of person would not reach the heights, he will never be satisfied with himself, which means he can not experience the fullness of happiness and enjoyment of your new achievements and successes.Why then are these achievements?
Only one person is happy and satisfied with their lives, which is guided by their desires.There is a very important point: do not take their desires and actions under the pressure of an inferiority complex as your real true desires.To understand this, you need to ask yourself a question: "If it were not for my inferiority complex, I'd like to do it or achieve it?".Of course, perhaps in that moment you answer "yes," but it will be biased opinion, as you can not imagine my life without this complex.You have to compare, and you do not compare, so the conclusion is itself.However, this does not mean that it is correct!
There is another important point - a person simply can not know that he had a complex or hard to try not to admit this fact: "I have an inferiority complex?Nonsense!That can not be! ".The fact that only a few systems available from the vast majority of people affected by them in varying degrees.Answer honestly to the following questions:
I like my appearance?
Do I myself smart?
I like to communicate with people?
I love myself?
I respect myself?
If these questions are answered in the negative, it means that there is an inferiority complex!But awareness of the problem and the recognition that it exists - 80% of its decisions, if not all 95%.
The next step is to understand the reason why there was an inferiority complex, and to overcome it should be your goal.Who do not you imposed this complex, where he had not appeared, the real reason - that you do not love yourself.This simple truth is known to everyone, but we persist to bypass its side.How can you fall in love, if you do not love yourself?Who will respect you if you think you are unworthy of respect?Those who have a desire to communicate with you, if you despise yourself, and consider yourself a jerk?If you are your own contradiction, why wait for understanding and love from others?
to the complex must be taken seriously, they can not ignore or pretend that they do not exist.They brought a man to stress, despair and even suicide.Without solving the problem, you it only gets worse.
Remember, you - a unique person!You - an amazing creation, your beauty is unique and perfect!Love yourself - it's natural, and it is not about selfishness, and to respect himself as a man capable of love, to do good and give joy to others.You - a piece of the world, and without you it would not be so beautiful!You have one purpose - to be happy!
Finally, remember one famous saying: "Treat people the way you would like them to treat you."Rephrase it: "Treat yourself as you would like to treat you different."And when you understand the difference, you'll get the whole world!
