In order to grow, you need to change.You can not move forward, while all the time in the same place.Our life is changing on a regular basis, it is a continuous and objective process.If your life is not transformed, then the growth stopped.
Here are eight tips to help change lives.
first tip reads: "Stop."
to change lives for the better, you need to pause, to think and reflect a lot.After all, if you are constantly busy with something, you will not have time for it to take any decisions that contribute to the transformation of a new life.Try to slow down the pace a bit, find opportunities to do so.
second advice is this: "You have to want to change lives."
very important to be prepared for change.Many people say, "I want to change my life."But what do you do for this?After all, it's your life, and no one but you can not influence its course.If you do not wish to change, no power will force a person to move in this direction.
In order to be ready for a new positive changes in life, he must first of all realize that he is able to
No need to despair, if not satisfied with the way you live.Better think about what you can do to make life different.
third council: "We need to be able to take responsibility."
should not their failures someone else to blame but yourself.So, which way you go, up or down, stand, or retreat to advance, entirely up to you.And once you understand and accept responsibility for their actions and steps, realize that everything depends on you, will immediately change for the better.
Council of the fourth is: "Seek values."
Our true values are hidden deep in the heart.You just need time to find them.For example, what is most important for you in life?And what are your principles of life?Finding answers to these questions, you will be easier to decide to change something in their lives.
Fifth advice: "Search of the reason."
Change Life is not easy, as there is inertia that must be overcome.And for that you need a source of energy capable of overcoming the situation to change and overcome the circumstances.Thus, the reason - it is the source of energy.Therefore, we must look for a foundation that will help you acquire the necessary strength.
Tip Six: "Learn how to replace limiting beliefs."
Beliefs that are holding you back - is the biggest obstacle, which may be on the way life changes.So, we need to identify them, and then fight against them.Useful to keep track of these bad thoughts like "I can not", "no way out" or "I'll always be."Psychologists advise to write such phrases.After some time, take a look at the resulting list.This is the belief that you limit.
So, with negative thoughts sorted out, now you need to replace them with positive beliefs, which can open up new opportunities.Fresh, positive thoughts are also recorded.This new list will assist in choosing the right path.Whenever you feel that you prevent constraining beliefs, just take up your list with positive mylsyami.
Seventh advice: "Replace bad habits good."
necessary to identify the negative habits that put pressure on you to prevent you from being pulled down.Decide on those.But do not try to just destroy (it may not work).It would be better if you will gradually replace them with new, positive.For example, you often watch TV - it's a bad habit.But you can use your free time more productively, for example, reading a book.
Tip Eight: "Finding a mentor."
mentor can give you valuable advice to warn if you expect a trap in a given situation.In the absence of such a person, you can be faced with great difficulties.Try to find a shoulder on which to lean difficult moment, a man whose advice and a fresh look at the situation from the outside always helps.
Change your life - change your life!
