Know yourself ... I guess everyone has heard this phrase.But the concept we put into it is different.As the ancients said: know yourself is to know God.Remember the famous saying "know thyself and you will know peace."
Let's see how to know yourself and what does it do?
According to psychologists, the knowledge of the man himself begins with the fact that you just need to accept yourself for who you really are.Do not force yourself to be someone similar to lead, or as dictated by fashion, environment, stereotypes in society, or as it is expected to have a close, most parents.No, knowledge begins with self-acceptance.And with them you must be honest.
If you have something does not work and you know that this is your weak side, be honest with yourself.You go to work, work, say, middle managers.But this is - not yours.And you were never interested.And you work there, because they need the money, because you are afraid of change, because they think there is something even worse and other, other, other ... Familiar?
Tell yourself honestly - it's not mine.If you do not admit it, then so will suffer from depression, because in such a case, you are doomed to conflict conscious and unconscious.The result of this unresolved conflict will neuroses, depression, somatic illness, sleep disorders, and other other "charms".
If you honestly say that it is "not yours", it is - only the first stage being to know yourself.The second stage is quite natural - if it is not mine, it is necessary to find what is mine.And that it is no less complicated.Only a few may find themselves at an early age, for others it - work.Think about what you do best.What is the difficulty?I know that I have always good at cooking / sewing / singing / dancing / invent and so on.But here we stop banal fear, but someone in combination with this, and even laziness.Frustrating - it is a conscious rejection of the knowledge.Unbelief does not reveal to us the secret of how to make yourself better and how to become more successful.
We can admire the people who have achieved success, but they are afraid to apply this to our own lives.Meanwhile, each of us is hidden genius.And it is - not an exaggeration.Man - a being perfect, because it has great potential.But ... we have to sit back for a boring job, sigh of a failed life and the injustice of fate, not realizing that it is our ignorance of ourselves and frustrating are the main enemies in the way of success.
As the experts advise, in order to know yourself, you can and should be done auditory training.And it's not just words.Your thoughts will penetrate into your brain and make you take a fresh look at all the circumstances of life.You stop looking for those responsible for their failures, but please look inward.
daily say to yourself: "I am - a confident person, I am perfect and powerful. I'm fearless, and I believe in myself, and most importantly, I want to know yourself and get better."
How does it work in practice?Very simple.You will have confidence, and perhaps you will find the courage to look for another job.The one that is closer to you, the one that suits you more.And most importantly, you will know that you will succeed, or simply can not be.
Look at the people who live worse than you.They have no legs or arms, or they lost their children, or happen to them some other terrible tragedy, but they find the strength to live.So do you find the strength to rebuild your life the way you want, and not depend on the circumstances of the hated work and eternal depression.
The network has a lot of books on self-improvement and self-knowledge, if you want you can chat online with psychologists and learn more about how you can and need to know yourself.And then your life will change for the better.
