Once a woman gets married, she gets one additional title - "daughter in law".Who is it - easy to understand, but the confusion in this matter enough.Women are angry and resist counting insulting nickname.Why is that?
For a woman who is a daughter in law
In the dictionary Dahl given sufficiently detailed definition of the concept.In-law - the wife of a son for his father.Only the Father, that is the head of the family, can be called a new family member in such a word.It has some historical roots.The word "in-law", believed to be derived from "bear."A woman should patiently listen to what the head of the family wants to tell her to do any work, and sometimes endure beatings.Maybe women are not even aware of the traditional sense of the word, feel its meaning from it and find it offensive.Even the sound is associated with something hard, if not cruel.Say aloud the word "daughter in law".Who invented it and why?In those days, when each piece of bread was extracted by hard work, for an extra mouth was kind of a burden.But the continuation of life required.This is a new family member, who was not capable of hard work and running, so to speak, reproductive function, and became known as dismissive - daughter in law.
Modern tradition
I must say that now people do not particularly think about the correct definition of family ties.The question: "in-law - who is it?" - Can answer almost half of the women.Now, more valued the ability to build a nice relationship and not related.For many families the woman affectionately called nevestushkoy, not daughter in law.Naturally, if initially it proved to be a loving wife and a good mother.For such women are satisfied with surprises and celebrations, is seen as the mother of man, not as an addition to his son.
Holidays for the beloved daughter
friendly family will not refuse to organize a wonderful holiday fun for every member of the family.In accordance with national traditions, anniversary daughter-in-law has to organize.After all, only he has the right to force her to "demolish" everything in the world!Let it not be beaten, and reproaches, and fun and entertainment!In the scenario of the holiday is required to include a section with a story about how people in your daughter in law.Who will do it - it does not matter!What matters is that as a result of "non-blood 'cousin felt herself loved ones.You can find simple and sincere words, in which each of the relatives and friends express their love and warmth.Then the title of "in-law" is not offensive, but enjoyable.
Funny congratulations
As you know, sharing fun and joy bring people together.This is worth remembering when preparing birthday greetings daughter in law.Fun surprises are always out of place.In the case of harmonious relations will please all gentle humor.If the family can not accept a new member, the joke can be smoothed rough and uneven in communication.For example, in-law can beat the old tradition, according to which no one could talk to the daughter in law, as he does not make it a gift.And if you follow the same gift, then, a woman - a chatterbox!You can buy two identical things, and present them for the evening.
