Maturity man hard enough to determine, especially if you have no experience in dealing with them in a situation of shared responsibility.But sometimes immaturity simply striking.And often we encounter it among the female.And we are not talking about situations of mental illness, just the behavior of women and girls is normal - but not age-appropriate.And it's not a pink teddy bear, which she pinned to her purse, everything is much more serious.
In the center of the universe
Infantilism - is primarily an internal fault plead adult.The most common symptom - "all for me."In this case, infantile woman believes that all of the events and people are just there to help or hinder it, as well as to instruct her on the right path.
CautionFatalism
Although one of this feature is not enough.Sometimes mature people prone to fatalism of religious persuasion.And argue with them is quite difficult.To the objection that it is impossible for all people at the same time given these or other signs, you get the answer that for God nothing is impossible.So if you doubt - mature personality will give you that argument.A infantilism - is the unwillingness to think deeper than usual, so the immature personality in response to such criticism puzzled, and hardly mentions God.
Position victim
also infantilism - is the unwillingness to take responsibility.If an immature person makes a mistake, he does not admit it.Teachers argue that undergraduate often in response to the question "Why are not you ready?" The young student replied: "It so happened."The older you get, the more sophisticated are justified.However, this does not mean that the girls have matured mentally, they just learned to throw off responsibility to society more acceptable ways.Mature woman says: "I am to blame for that ... ready to do ... or other options of your choice."Infantile woman blame circumstances and will look like a victim of events or other people.
Deep hunger
still immature personality a lot of talk.And almost do not listen.Therefore, with friends, they often a problem, especially if protracted immaturity.All in childhood are of interest only to a stage, but some can not go ahead and learn to listen and not just talk.The root cause - the person does not get the right kind of information to him at the time, but because the mind can not develop properly.Infantilism - is a kind of developmental delay.Help heal a good psychologist who can help you find ways to "be satisfied" with the necessary information.It literally works miracles, and most often is not easy to find a way.Moreover, the infantile people often can not understand their problem.
Immaturity is often very attractive.This spontaneity, emotion and brightness of an alternative way of understanding that a person offers to others.So with an immature person must be handled carefully and gently help him or her to become mentally mature.
