how fragile and how fleeting human life.Faced with death, as the inexorable reality, a person drops out of life, fuss and hassle.He seemed to be stopped for some time, and it is in such moments tend to visit the person and the thought of the transience of life.
Thoughts of death is a natural protest because a strong desire zhitzalozheno from birth.
No matter how tight, people will be hard to do everything not to leave this world as long as possible.
And so the inevitability of death is the strongest internal conflict and a deep sense of sadness.
Not just to support the one who is experiencing similar feelings, to find the right words, you thought ...
But if such grief has befallen someone close to us, what to do?How to comfort the grieving and to express his condolences over the death of his father, for example?
To answer these questions, first of all, one must understand the feelings experienced person who has lost a loved one.
What feelings is death?It is the fear of the inevitable, or the heart is still a glimmer of hope that the death - is not the end?
important to understand that in such moments grieving least want to know that it is possible to close somewhere far away in the sky that he is doing well.A person who has someone died, mostly experiencing their own grief, his misfortune and his shock, so, no matter how it was cynical, but at times like this you need to think not of the dead, but of the mourners.
sometimes in response to the words of condolence over the death of a loved one can hear: "I do not need to say that it is God's will.I hate when I say so. "
condolences on the death is not always expressed in some words.Sometimes that comfort person, overwhelmed with grief, becomes the mere presence of a friend who is ready to listen patiently to take all manifestations of grief and despair.The death of a loved can be a real challenge, which is the strength not to everyone and can cause deep depression and despondency.Therefore condolences over the death should be very soft and tactful.
people who call themselves Christians generally believe in the existence of God.And if his condolences over the death of a loved one will be based on the Holy Scriptures, it can bring comfort to those who mourn.
In one of the books of Scripture have the assurance: "God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation."
Whoever expresses condolences over death must be very careful not to injure the words just because they are spoiled.Death of a close - it is a terrible shock.And so, when they say: "Resign yourself - it is inevitable," "Calm down, it is in heaven" - often simply lose the desire to live.But there is another kind of comfort that drive to live.
Scripture convinces us that God has provided a meeting for all those who once lost a close and dear person."Christ is risen from the dead, the first of those who have fallen asleep mortal sleep.For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive. "
