What is a traditional family today?Most likely, such a question would not be relevant about twenty years ago.Why is he now does not cause even surprise on the faces of others?Let's deal.
First of all, it is a curious fact that the answers of people who were asked this question turned out to be different.Let us turn to the terminology to decipher the concept of "family."The definition goes something like this: "A group of relatives (by blood or documented) family, which are connected common living area, and emotional attachment."
Moreover, we note that this interpretation is not in vain emphasizes so-called emotional connection, that is, love, affection.Agree, if a son married and has been living with his parents, it does not mean that it has ceased to be a member of their family.After all, they are each other's still love.However, it also appeared certain obligations to his wife, because she - his family.So, it turns out that he had them for two?
traditional family nowadays means the union of man and woman, in which appears the offspring.
Let's talk about how it all originates.First, there is a feeling that unite two people.Starting to live life together, there is such a thing as a life that in many ways can disrupt optimistic presentation of husband and wife to live together.After all, no wonder there is a proverb: "Family boat crashed against life".Not everyone is ready for such woes, because it turns out that love alone is not enough for a family.In American films, there is a scene in which the wedding vows pronounced "in sorrow and in joy, in sickness and in health ..." etc.That is, the people will be with each other until such time as someone thinks that he has "enough".And then ends with the traditional family is very common today in divorce.Note that in the past the percentage of divorces and marriages were in favor of the latter.Today, the number of broken families is increasing.
general, as practice shows, all people differently imagined his future family.Someone dreams of a prince, some of the rich and wealthy husband, someone on the owner and many children.But not everyone understands that the definition of family for each must begin with love and respect.And these feelings are mutual priori.Life, unfortunately, is very bright and colorful clouds the dream of many boys and girls.It is important not to succumb to it and find the positive, even in the little things of everyday.
habit - a great power.We are getting used to seeing the same thing, because it does not impress us.To be able to paint in bright colors mediocrity - is an art that needs to learn.
In addition, there are many problems that often lead to divorce.They can relate to interpersonal relationships and social problems.
Many psychologists argue that the traditional family in a fast pace of development of society and increasing the number of problems and temptations begins to lose the ability to listen to and hear the other party, of a loved one.Unfortunately, we often do not have time for the family, because they are so close, can wait, there's more important things.
There is great motto of the famous Scarlett O'Hara: "I'll think about it tomorrow."But "tomorrow" with this person may never come.Keep in mind that mutual respect and understanding can help to recreate those old relationships, if you do not see in your league.However, as rightly noted the wise men, the family - is work.Nobody said it was easy.However, our emotional state is worth it.It is easiest to break, than to try to connect some frayed threads.Create heavier than destroy.So let's not look for easy ways.It's - destiny weak.
