We found 7 of the rules, which help parents to develop the child's independence, let's look at them in detail ...
1. Include the child in such activities where it can succeed, and do not require the implementation is still difficult for him orunspecified job.
2. Gradually increase the number of achievements of the child, encouraging and supporting him in difficult moments while teaching essential "rules of the game" (natural restrictions and prohibitions that are clear to the child).
3. helping to overcome difficulties, to do for the child what he can do already own.("Together" with the child, and not "instead of" him).
4. allow the child to make their own decisions and take responsibility for themselves, encouraging the emergence of his natural sense of responsibility and self-discipline.
5. Suggest a child when he can help somebody, to protect the weaker, share toys, sweets, etc., that he received the experience of self-affirmation as authorizing (the ability to give - a sign of a positive force).
6. Maintain a sense of self-worth in the child and self-confidence is always, even in situations of criticism or prohibiting its adverse effects (bad deed, not the child).
7. In any situation to be, above all, loving parents, in the strict respect of which - the main source of spiritual strength the child's mental development success.
Instead of conclusion
human personality is formed mainly by the 5-6 years.And with regard to the development of certain skills, "after three too late" (That is, for example, called his book Masaru Ibuka - creator of the famous company «Sony», who for personal reasons has devoted much time and effort to study and practical coping pathology of early development).
However, a person can develop and improve their entire lives to a ripe old age.The main thing is that he had the desire to change themselves, creative attitude to life and self-reliance.The foundation of such a positive and constructive attitude of the individual (as a basis for its future success) is laid in early childhood, when everything is just beginning.
So the best thing parents can give their children - it is an opportunity from an early age to believe in themselves (!) And constantly expand (!) Area of its real, practical independence.Thus confirming that they are able to be responsible and successful that they can actually "build" their lives, rather than drag it miserable - passive and dependent - existence.
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