Experienced wife with great experience of family life tell you that patience and endurance in family life almost more important than love, and marriage itself - it is everyday and hard work on building relationships.The success of any marriage, as a rule, depends on the ability of at least one side to compromise and give in.Want to keep her husband, his love, affection and respect - then should listen to good advice.
1. You have chosen her man, so love him sincerely and faithfully.Trust him not to humiliate interrogations and petty chicanery.Man must see that he trusted him hope.Trust is reciprocal trust, sense of belonging, confidence in your feelings, actions, and as a result, brings together.
2. Comfort in the house - it is the handiwork of women, because not spare effort and let your husband sees that you are waiting for him, he's always loved and desired, but do not forget that sometimes the desire to be alone and quite naturallyfor women and for men.Be careful not molestation, sympathetic without seeking to get into the spirit.
3. Do not try to re-educate the husband, to fix it in accordance with your ideas.The attempt to "transform" a grown man looks at least, and certainly cause serious resistance - at first dull, and then actively.
4. Even if you got a husband-Silent, do not regret the good and kind words, it stresses the qualities that you value most, or who would like to see it - fidelity, reliability, loyalty, generosity towards you.
5. Do not let him communicate with friends.Refers to the fact that your husband still has his life normally.And you, too, it should be.And so continue to live not only to them, but his interesting life, do not dwell only on the home and family.Do not give up for him by his friends, businesses, hobbies, interests.
6. Do not force it to do what you do for yourself: have cereal for breakfast, diet, go for fashionable boutiques, to understand the fashion trends of the coming season and to distinguish between shades of nail polish.He is all interesting, and, thank God.At the same time did not prevent him playing football, eating chips and other poison and hoarse to argue with your friends about the price of a barrel of oil.Respect other people's habits, then your hobbies and tastes will be adequate attitude.
7. Stay with her husband in a measure independent.No need to play the role of a little girl, and that she can not step a step without the help of men.But do not overdo it: a man should know what a woman needs in the protection and assistance that he - the shoulder on which it is prepared to lean on.
8. Watch for their appearance.Do not tell my husband that since you are now living together, and you can relax, change into a gown.
9. Do not share with anyone the details of your relationships, especially intimate, do not laugh at them, do not expose it in an unfavorable light, do not comment in a derogatory form of its expression.Behave with dignity and respect her husband.Especially properly behave in the presence of his friends and relatives.
10. Even if you believe in the immutability of your family situation, you still worry about his status.It may seem ridiculous, but if a woman has value in the eyes of the man, he begins to think that it is a reward for it, that is, it must constantly be won.And what could be more desirable to men than production, with the battle reclaimed from the surrounding world.Be a woman that a man perceives as a prize as a gift of fate - and everything will be fine.
Jan Malinovskaya
Articles Source: wild-mistress.ru
