Surely, in his life at least once you had to be in an unfamiliar society.It is for these situations are thought up rules of conduct with strangers.Once the celebration of the birth of a distant relative or a classmate to a party, you can be surrounded by strangers or unfamiliar people.What to do in such a situation?Many people choose for themselves - not to stand out, to hide in a secluded corner, and wait patiently for the end of the event.Other - prefer to wander around for an hour and citing a headache to retire from the holiday.But because you can try to become "his" and make new acquaintances.Simple rules of conduct to help strangers to join the company and to expand the circle of friends.
- first principle: not to stand out, try to laugh at jokes with the others.Of course, very often narrow the companies tell funny funny things that happened to someone of the familiar.You should laugh together with all and can tell a similar joke of your life.People love merry, cheerful companions.They are not only happy to talk, but also laugh at other people's jokes, as long as they are appropriate.
- Do not ask personal, unpleasant questions.In this situation, you need to judge by yourself, do not ask about what to do would not answer.It is always best to ask a general question to maintain a conversation.Let the conversation will be unobtrusive.After asking the question the other party, let him express his point of view to the end, do not interrupt him.People like to be listened to when they are interested.However, the question "How are you?", Answer is disclosed to enable the other party to continue the conversation.
- Try to find a common language with the company.We should not be like them, stooping to abuse and swear words.Select a pair of fixed expressions when communicating.Try to find someone who is interested in the same issues as you, to talk with him more easily.Perhaps he will introduce you to their friends.
- Refrain from negative evaluation of any of the others.As long as you are not familiar with the company well, it is not necessary to express a premature judgment.If someone responds unflattering human presence, it does not mean that the same can be expressed by an outsider.As long as you are not aware of the situation, it is necessary to remain silent.
- Be friendly and helpful.Try to be polite.Refer to the other party by name, if you've forgotten his name, ask again once more, citing a bad memory for names.You can, however, wait until it hailed.But you risk to wait a very long time.
Rules strangers are quite simple and do not require special skills.In principle, they are as elementary as the rules of behavior in the classroom.Which will be discussed below.
- disciples after the signal of the beginning of the lesson should be for the party to prepare beforehand everything you need for the lesson.
- When lateness to class can only let the teacher.
- Standing, students greet each newcomer adult or teacher
- lesson can be answered only after the permission of the teacher.
- not allowed to talk or interfere with the lesson.
- at the party should be only the necessary items, all the excess is put into the bag.
- get up and out of the class are allowed after consent of the teacher.
- all their business needs to be done to change that would be in for a lesson not to distract the teacher.
- in the corridor are not allowed to run, pushing, screaming and fighting.You can play without disturbing the discipline.
- Sitting in class, the student must pay attention to posture, position of the legs and head tilt.
- not allowed in the classroom cribs and other tips.
- signal sounds to end the lesson for the teacher, so get up and get out of the class are allowed after consent.
- If a student misses a class, it must provide a certificate from a medical institution or a note from their parents.
- absenteeism prohibited.
As you can see, it is quite important, and not ridiculous rules of conduct.Especially if you want to show a good side.Despite the fact that the rules of conduct with strangers invented a long time ago, they are still relevant today.
