Under the speech etiquette understand the totality of speech means, as well as rules for their use in certain situations.Speech etiquette teaches us not only to converse, but also to start and finish it.Those who know certain rules does not fall into the ridiculous situation when dealing with cultural and people will always be able to show their best side.
Russian speech etiquette allows several options breaker.It all depends on the specific circumstances, as well as the environment.At the party, for example, you can just walk up and start a conversation using unpretentious question.Do not forget to introduce myself.
meet people in public places is not prohibited.How to do it right?You can start with a request for help: help select a book, ask which product is better and so on.Trying to continue the conversation can only be the case if a man showed interest in you.
speech etiquette rules do not prohibit to start the conversation with a compliment.This approach makes it fast enough to win this or that person.
can start a conversation with general phrases about the weather, some events and so on.
To continue the conversation, you can use a variety of issues.It is important to listen to your interlocutor.This will help to figure out what topics are most appropriate.In general, the speech etiquette recommends to listen and not talk.Do not try to interrupt the interlocutor.Arguing is not recommended - there is no point to prove to everyone the position.The controversy only spoil the impression of you.
encouraged relaxed conversation.In order to make the interlocutor to relax, you can tell some simple anecdote or funny story from the life.
be interesting to talk to - to know a lot.It should be enough even for the small parcels, which arrive from the interlocutor.It is also necessary to develop them.Read books, magazines, watch the news, interested in novelties of cinema.
clever during a conversation speech etiquette forbids.
It is not only the right to initiate and continue the conversation, but finish it.Check must always be firmly, but gently, and very polite.When there is no point to continue the conversation, do not try to grasp at all the threads in a row.Meru need to know.Better thank interlocutor for interesting conversation, praise him for something and, goodbye, leave.
If you hurry, as the source only got a taste, tactfully hint to him, looking at his watch.Apologize and tell me what would be happy to continue the conversation, but urgent matters do not allow you to do this.
Speech etiquette involves gentle care of those you do not want to discuss.Options are different.You can, of course, try to steer the conversation in another direction, but it is best to admit openly that the topic is unpleasant to you and ask to lower it.
In a conversation we should not talk about the negative, their troubles, worries, sufferings, and so on.Problems of all lots.In each they own, and talk about them for hours.
topics that are personal and for you and for your companion, do not make a subject of conversation in the presence of strangers.On things that are sensitive in nature, emphasizes, trying to understand, do not mind whether the interviewee to talk about them.
Do not even try to discuss the missing people.Through their discussions, many are trying to raise your ranking.This tactic is wrong.The conversation can get amusing (though useless), but the impression of yourself you will spoil.Speech etiquette does not allow gratuitous ridicule anyone.
Do not succumb to the mood.Always try to get into the emotional state of the person with whom speak.In some cases, you can try to influence his emotional state.
