human nature ardently wish to communicate with others.We can not build the right interaction between self-esteem and feel really fit.Therefore, people who have difficulty communicating given feel as if isolated from the others and therefore unhappy.Is it possible to change the situation?How to talk to people, to relations were the best?
The fact is that during the conversation, met a lot of human needs, so you need to pay attention to everything and act flexibly.Rules are not many, and many of us feel them intuitively, although mistakes tend to do.
How to talk, to be interesting?First, important information content.Or rather - awareness.That is, you should be well versed in the subject.In my counseling practice, it was a case where a woman deliberately reading every day society column to be adopted in the field of colleagues at work.So try to be prepared to talk to colleagues or friends were interested in talking with you.
But the interest is not limited to what you give useful information.The question is how to present it.Try to express your thoughts emotionally, but sensual sphere should be under control.Highlight the main voice, can be repeated several times, even the most important part of his speech.How to talk to affect the desired emotions?This learning policy for the years of practice, but it is best to try to mentally put yourself in the situation of the interlocutor.And try to understand what it can in this situation worry.What hurt him, what problems they want to solve.Then, during the practical application of this knowledge, watch out for facial expressions and gestures to adjust their behavior.If you learn how to correctly guess the emotional states - will communicate much more successful.For these purposes, you can use the old movies, they are less effects and more psychological.And then the actors demands were much higher, so the feelings and attitudes more reliably transferred.Make this a regular job, for example, set its goal to watch at least two movies a week.Observe the emotions and reactions of people, it will help you gain insight needed in the communication process.This practice is essential for people who want to know how to talk to people.
described method also helps you learn how to feel during the conversation.You will begin to feel unconsciously, how much time you need to say, and how much you need to pause as to not interfere with the other party to express his thought through.
If you're wondering how to learn how to talk to people, remember - in informal communication important - do not know how to speak, and to be able to listen with interest.Most people do not know how, while they themselves are constantly in search of "free ears."Do not repeat the mistakes of others.Give the other person to speak fully, you can even paused to give weight to his account.
Speaking of heckling.The problem may be that you have it explained by the biological characteristics of brain function under the rules.More details can be found in the books of Dr. Amena, which I recommend to anyone who wants to make a difference.
People love when they make themselves feel important, so the conversation is constantly emphasized the merits and the authority of his interlocutor, then you will turn more and more often.You will become much more popular, it will make your life happier.After all, you give a lot of joy to their loved ones and friends.
