7 of the rules of living in peace with itself and the outside world

1. Rule Mirrors.

People around me - my mirrors.They reflect my own personality characteristics, often not perceived by me.For example, if someone is rude to me, then I want to, I can afford.If someone over and over again cheating on me, so I tend to, to believe anyone.So do not take offense at anyone.

2. The right to choose.

I realize that everything that happens in my life - is the result of my own choosing.And if today I am dealing with a boring person, so I'm very boring and nerdy.Not bad and evil men - there are unhappy.If I rake their problems, then I like it.So no one to make a complaint.I myself cause of everything that happens to me.The author and creator of his own destiny - I myself.

3. Rule errors.

I agree that I may be wrong.Not always my opinion or my actions other people have to be considered correct.The real world is not just black and white, there is light and dark gray and white.I'm not ideal, I'm a good person and have a right to make mistakes.The main thing - to be able to recognize it and to correct time.

4. rule matches.

I have exactly that, and just enough so that I fit they deserve, no more, no less, whether it concerns relations with people, work or money.If I can not love a person to the fullest, it is ridiculous to demand that this man loved me.So all my claims are meaningless.And yet, when I myself decide to change - change and the people around me (for the better).

5. Rule Dependencies.

me no one should.I'm capable of and I can selflessly help anyone who can not.And it is a joy.To be good, you have to be strong.To be strong, we must believe that I still can.And I believe it!But you have to and be able to say "NO!".

6. Rule Presence.

I live here and now.The past is not, because every next moment comes now.There is no future, because it is not yet.Attachment to the past leads to depression, anxiety about the future gives rise to concern.As I live in the present, I insisted.There is a reason to rejoice.

7. Rule optimism.

While we criticize life, she passes by.The eyes see, the legs go, the ears hear, the heart works, the soul rejoices.My fitness - sunny summer, meadow and river.As I move until the wind blew the skin - I live.When I'm watching TV, lying on the couch, or chat with my friends in LJ - I'm not in it, and in the hereafter.

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