There is a saying: the man needs a man.What does it mean?Why would a man need people?Can not you do without them?Consider all this in more detail.
People
They surround us everywhere: at the entrance, on the street, in stores, at work / study, hospitals and so forth. So, the topic of today's article: who they are, why they can not live without and why a person need people?
Probably each of us once in my life thought, and what we actually live, what is the meaning of life and so on. D. People - it is our environment, we used to see around their own kind, and yet sooner orlater there is the question of why they (and, consequently, we) need.And the answer is - we are social creatures, so we can not be alone.Always there or almost beside us someone is yes, whether the mother or frequent the neighbor on the landing.And this is normal, it's natural.
People need us to:
- communication;
- transactions (for example, stores);
- lovemaking (physiology - the important thing);
- assistance;
- for incentive to become more intelligent, more interesting, more beautiful;
- for a full life in the end.
Of course, this is not all the options, but still the most common.The following are the different types of branches dealing with people.
Relationship
Anyone who asks, "Why do I need a loved one," or more likely never fall in love for real, or has little experience with the opposite sex.Or, on the contrary, the experience there, but, unfortunately, negative.
relationship between a man and a woman - one of the important aspects of life.Friends and family mean a lot, but help test feeling the thrill and excitement before a date they can not.Just as they can not replace kissing, sex and more.There are exceptions, but they are hardly accepted norm.
favorite person is able to soothe when nerves to the limit, with a single touch;nullify any quarrel norovyaschie escalate into a full-fledged scandal, with the help of sex or other methods;make it clear to the person that he can be loved, and to prove it every day ... You can continue for long.The only important thing: a loved one need, with certainly.
Friendship
Who can support in difficult times?With whom you can spend your time?Who can be trusted with their secrets not to keep them a heavy load in the shower?Of course, you can turn to a psychologist, who for your money and listen and give advice, but it's not.
Every man needs friends.Who would not say that the love of solitude - in most cases this is a lie.Most people love a periodic loneliness.If they had to live with a month or two in the woods, in the wilderness, where there is not a single living soul, they would realize how mistaken about the hostility to the people.At least a minimal communication - whether it be at work, on the Internet, with family members or bystanders - everyone needs.Friends
person does not provide a casual conversation, while sincere, cheerful, warm, family.So, what you can not talk to their parents, significant other, or a stranger, you can easily discuss with the other, because it is with these people to discuss the topic can be absolutely anyone.
Knowledge
us a little bit teach parents and teachers in kindergartens, we are forced to learn in school, then we almost have to force to enter higher education, and it is only because to not to be considered ignorant.Of course, not always, but often.However, why do we need a man of knowledge, few can answer.The task of teachers - to teach.And some people are really asking: "Why?"
Let's start with the fact that without the knowledge of man is uninteresting, boring and stupid.From early childhood, people get minimum information: What is the plane, how to eat with a spoon and fork, how to determine the time, how to read, write and more.Now, let's imagine a situation where people do not know anything at all.Good, basic skills such as the ability to walk, eat and go to the toilet we leave, but exclude all the knowledge that is taught to children in school.What then?Just imagine a planet inhabited by ignorant, stupid, careless, lazy creatures.It's even worse than cavemen, it is generally unknown creatures who can not do anything useful.Any planet inhabited by such creatures, doomed.From parasites usually get rid ...
Users are required to gain knowledge.To some it will show itself in the conversation with the best hand, someone - to invent something new, someone - to fulfill a lifelong dream.A man without knowledge - is not a person, an animal, or even worse.This dead end.We must use what we have - namely, intellect, mind.
Family
Friends and love - it's good, but there is another important part of everyone's life.Family.It is the most people since childhood, as well as after the final maturity.So why would a man need a family and how it takes place in our lives?
Let's go back to childhood.All that we were a little unclear, we asked the parents.They taught us around and helped to become productive members of society.Brothers and sisters became friends, and saved from boredom in the free days.The children from orphanages to experience such happiness could not - most are thrown back in its infancy, like a toy.Someone thought that the kid does not need a family, forgetting, as he was once a child.
family - it is a great support, without it, people grow quite different.It is not always evil, brutal and heartless, but still different.Never forget about his family, his parents and other relatives.We need to understand that if there will be serious trouble, everyone will be deeply spit on you.Everyone except the parents.You always need them.The situation is the same when you will have your children (if they are not already).Without a family person will experience an incredible loneliness that will have to feel too badly closer to old age.
Society
So with loved ones like friends, loved ones and family, we understand.It's time to go to the more generalized concepts.So, why would a man have to society?Can I do only those whom you trust and with whom you talk for a long time, and not in contact with the other at all?The answer is unequivocal: no!
Firstly, people do not always become friends or lovers for life, sometimes you have to leave.Then that will affect the lack of practice of communicating with others.At first glance, everything seems easy, but actually getting used to certain people, people trust them so that he can discuss anything.On the other, unfamiliar personalities such will not pass.Too chances are no topics for conversation, awkward pause, and fast separation.
Secondly, 90% of jobs in some way connected with the people, and the people - this society.Man wants to or not, he must be able to communicate with others.
Thirdly, it can help society cope with the problems.Sometimes people are so compassionate, that send money to a stranger to the child for surgery.What did the mother anyway?She watched her child die?And so - the company has helped her child survived, everyone is happy.
Fourth, among the people around them often and find new friends and mate.
Life
Here we come to one of the most important moments.We have more or less understand why a person need people, friends, family, loved, and so on. D. And all this is really interesting.However, it remains to understand why human life.
question can be called philosophical, affecting not only the existence, and the meaning thereof.The answer will not be long.No need to look for a lot of answers, wondering why everything happens, why do we need family, friends, loved and just people.We were born to live simply.And you have to enjoy life, because nobody knows what awaits us in the future.No one has proved the existence of other dimensions, heaven and hell, the so-called afterlife worlds ... Let us assume that life is given to just live and enjoy every day, every moment.
Conclusion That's all.Now you have at least a rough idea of why a person need people and other elements of life, including her herself.Another thing is that each person their idea of those or other things, and what one considers quite entertaining, the other would call absurd.
