What does most of the time your child when he is at home?What he is most like?That's right - watch TV all day long!But is it good?It is now about it.
Many parents, especially mothers, using TV as a babysitter because, looking favorite cartoon or transfer, baby calms down and often eat without vagaries.Sometimes, of course, is the way out.It happens that the only way to calm the child, in this case to talk about the dangers of TV, of course, would be wrong.
bad example is infectious
child grows primarily by copying their parents and imitating them.He intuitively waiting for your attention.And the front of the TV is not the child gets used to the parental love and affection, and the virtual hero who in life do not exist.Of course, the parents get tired, and, of course, is not always possible to give children maximum attention.
Problems at work, broken machine, burst crane - like really urgent issues often have to solve the parents.But most interesting is that even amid all the problems parents have at home first of all include a TV, of course, giving the child a vivid example of a leisure activity and food intake.
Real life
thoughtful ... You turn on the TV and then to relax, laugh, maybe cry.Take a word - the child watches TV for the same reasons, it is only waiting for these emotions in the first place not on a blue screen, and from you.Children wait for love and affection are not drawn from the characters, and the main characters of their little lives - from you!
Try to check it in practice.On coming home tell me what you want to play with the child.I think that he will agree, will not cause no one doubts.It is better if your kid come up and offer the game itself.
Maybe you did not notice, but every child has a bunch of favorite toys with which he invents all sorts of games.Just participated in the game wholeheartedly, that the kid had no doubt that you really interesting.
Personally, I just realized the negative side of a blue screen, began to spend more time with his son in the open air, where even after a whole day spent in kindergarten, he was running around like a madman, playing in all that is possible, comes home withgood appetite, sleep easily and with a smile.
Catch the moment
The most interesting thing is that as long as parents do not understand the importance of communicating with children, television literally steal them from you.Think about it.Missing time is very difficult, the main thing not to miss it forever.
After a child - also a man, he gets used to everything in the same way as an adult, and if he gets used to receive warmth, affection and love only through TV, put it back in the real world will be possible only through the efforts of a specialist.
few words in favor of the TV
however, still say a few words in favor of the TV.After all, to say that the TV is not worth watching, it would be foolish.In the end, we live today in a very technologically advanced time, and all inventions created to help the man and not vice versa.So
, including child TV or a movie, even a little look at it yourself.It is important to know what the child lives.Agree, and bloody soldier and good fairy baby will be copied to the same life.You just have to know when to stop.Nothing bad will happen if the kids watch TV for 40-60 minutes a day.
Now a lot of bad writing about the influence of television on the younger generation.But one-sided and negative can talk about absolutely everything.
firmly believe that if the baby is getting enough attention, love, affection and care of loved ones, the good kind, or transfer of a cartoon about animals it does not hurt, but on the contrary, expand horizons and will make your baby smarter and more knowledgeable.
main thing - everything in moderation!
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