still summer, but the parents of future pupils have useful start mentally prepared for what awaits them in September.Perhaps we should even advance to teach a child to a new regime for him if he's not used to it in kindergarten, and try to solve some of the problems listed below, if they exist.
So, what problems students may encounter parents during the school year, and how to deal with them?
main problems parents of schoolchildren - Part One:
1. How to raise a child on time and not be late?
Many children can not spare time to get up in the morning, all the while begging for "five minutes", forcing parents to be nervous and to be late to school, to work.
Try to adjust the mode of student - best night stand firm and put the baby to bed on time than to hurry and nervous in the morning.
Arise themselves earlier than usual, so that you have time to calmly prepare all the food and stuff yourself and your child, yourself breakfast and then wake up the student.
If the child is very difficult to wake up and slowly rises in the morning, try "creative methods Wake" - music, cartoons, songs and so on.You can come up with some kind of a morning game associated with the ability to wake up on time.
If you still could not leave the house on time, do not pour irritation on baby, do not yell at him or punish - better give it to the school calm and sleep.
2. The child says he has "nothing to wear" - what to do?
Many children in the morning can not choose a dress and sometimes even scandals about it.Moreover, it does not depend on the amount and quality garments in the cabinet.
Of course, in times of universal compulsory school uniforms in that sense it was easier, but today it is possible to solve this psychological problem.
Just choose with the child in the evening his clothes for the next day - do not provide it to select it alone, it will confuse him and help him.And agreed that in the morning he must wear something that is prepared in the evening - these are the "rules of the game."
In an extreme case, prepare two or three versions of the suit in the evening - in case the baby will change his mind in the morning.If your school - a mandatory form, the choice of clothes the morning much easier.
3. The child does not want to take a sandwich to school - what to do?
What if the student does not want to take with you at recess and eat healthy sandwich (with vegetables, egg, sausage or cheese), and wants to have only a loaf of bread with chocolate paste?
Agree with your child - let him tell you what he wants to find in his sandwich every day (anything except chocolate), and then at the end of the week you give him with a favorite treat.Let it with you and vitamin-rich fruits and vegetables as a whole or sliced.
Well, if you can teach a child to have breakfast at home before going to school - of course, for that he needs time to get up.Dairy products, sandwiches, light salads, sausages, bananas, eggs, toast suitable for this breakfast.Sometimes you can give your child a chocolate milk with a roll or "flakes", but not often.
4. Problems with the preparation of homework - what to do?
is not easy to make the student - especially in the early grades, homework.A child may say that he does not want, that he was not asked what he would do later, or constantly require your help.What to do?
The baby learned independently, develop their thinking and he was able to overcome the difficulties, and even wanted to learn, parents should vaccinate his ability to learn, not to do him lessons.And do not try at all times to monitor the student constantly remind him about the lessons and control - he must learn to responsible approach to learning.
can and should, of course, help your child learn to use the library, dictionaries and reference books, Internet search engines and other necessary learning programs to help him organize his studies.
help you and pooscheny system for good grades - but be careful that the child has not begun "to learn of the gifts."
Set a specific time to do homework kid - lunch and a little rest after school.And to make the lessons, that he is entitled to all sorts of pleasant entertainment, rides and games with your friends - it will inspire him to work more dynamic.Organize your child calm and quiet "workplace", where he will have everything you need, and no one would disturb him.
5. How to properly and timely to lay down their portfolio?
From the first class of the child must be educated not only in order, but also to the fact that the folding portfolio - its direct obligation and responsibility.
And it should be done in the evening, it is desirable - after he finished homework.Turn a tedious and boring for many children in the process of folding portfolio exciting and dynamic game.
Do not forget to teach your child to check which books, notebooks and other items he will need tomorrow, how to fold the bag and keep clean and tidy her things.
The next articles we will continue to acquaint you with the "school problems of parents' and their solution.
