International Day of Families (International Day of Families) is celebrated annually on May 15th.On this day to congratulate their loved ones, but most importantly - remember his family not only on holidays and any day with no exceptions!
Watching Hollywood movies, modern girls before marriage know exactly how to behave happy couple that are required to make a husband and wife, and that absolutely can not do.But the reality is far from the ideal image of the family.
American psychologist Barbara Bertleyn in his book "Why should I marry you?" Invites us into the family life with confidence to break stereotypes and to break the rules.
can lie!
I do not lie, and do not tell the whole truth.And though it is contrary to all our moral principles, to be completely honest with your partner can not.Take care of your loved one the feelings and hurt him with unnecessary details.
quarrels do not lead to divorce
You never quarreled with her beloved?So, just to avoid conflict.Barbara Bertleyn argues that latent dissatisfaction with each other can lead to a rupture of relations.Sometimes it is better to give vent to his anger than to keep my mouth shut.
kids - not a reason to forget about her husband
How often do we hear that a woman ceases to love her husband after giving birth.Happy children grow up in families where the parents love and understanding prevail.Allow yourself time to time to leave the children in the care of grandparents or nannies and simply enjoy each other's company.
can put up in bed!
believed that all quarrels and insults to forget before sunset.And go to bed in a bad mood is contraindicated.The psychologist Elizabeth Lombardo says the opposite: you're angry right now or not, but you sure will reconsider their attitude to the problem, if well rested.
can sleep separately
Husband and wife should always sleep in the same bed?This is another stereotype.If you need a good night's sleep before a hard day, you can afford to sleep in the next room.Elizabeth Lombardo states: Sleep in separate beds helps to maintain the health, intelligence, and marriage.
can not be together all the time
stereotype that husband and wife have all the free time to spend together, debunked!You can sometimes have a rest from the community spouse.Your husband can afford to relax: fishing, bowling, seeing friends do not require your presence mandatory.Why do not you go on holiday separately from her Blessed?
couple may have different hobbies
You do not have to share her husband with all his enthusiasm.If the husband likes to climb on the rocks, you do not necessarily through the power to climb the same hill.You can spend your free time for a favorite pastime, and your spouse will be engaged in what is his soul.
Boredom - yes!
believed that the happy couple is never boring.Barbara Bertleyn says that it is better to lead a quiet, measured and secure family life than to constantly be on the roller coaster, rising up and falling down.If you are bored, arrange a holiday filled with adventure.
But the boredom of family life just will not be the cause of the divorce.But drastic shake-up could lead to the disintegration of the family.
Sex - the basis of marital happiness
couples engaged in sex not because they want to bring happiness to your other half.According to psychologists, that harmonious sexual relationships are the foundation of marriage.Therefore, do not view sex as a reward for her husband.After all, sex makes both happy!
Love goes, but the family remains
passion can not last forever!Unfortunately, over time, even the love goes ... You're the respect, mutual understanding and confidence in the future.Often, families are falling apart just because one spouse goes in search of new love.But confidence and stability will always be the foundation of strong marriages.
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