Despite the emancipation, feminism, the recognition of the church women having an immortal soul and the other achievements of the last century, including the right to vote, women's collective unconscious insists that the man should be alone forever.
So almost every encountered on the path of life of the opposite sex, gave her hand to transport or were treated to a cup of coffee, subconsciously evaluated: "Is not he the is my destiny?" It is for this reason that so popular horoscopes, online oracles castBoots Christmas night over the fence, guessing the poultry litter and other predictors of the future.
why the topic, let's say there is sex on the first date shall be considered in women's magazines with a seriousness comparable to the discussion of scientific figures of danger for black holes in our galaxy.
And all this is because with men overrated.Why hide, even in the most advanced and sensible women when meeting a thought: "Is to me this man, if I'm ready to give birth to his child," and most importantly - "How would manage to die with him in one day?" And then beginsa series of painful reflection Hamlet "Be with us, or not to be?".
This meditate we with such depth and intensity as if by our decision depends not on whom we will be getting scarce carnations and tulips on the eighth of March and fly in low-cost all-inclusive in Egypt, and then to whom we makejourney on the "Voyager" to the edge of the solar system, or at least, under whose cover will work in the Colombian drug cartels.
can not say that of men should not expect reliability, care and support, including lifelong.All this is a matter of course, and more than that, over time, is exactly what happens - always, sooner or later there is a man who takes over the filling receipts, bills for electricity and selection burning tours to the Maldives.But it does not require each encountered a man of spiritual feats and give everyone, even a fleeting meeting crucial role!
As he said in one of the infinity of the Internet users: "We must understand once about the man that he is given to you for fun and joy.And do not think it suits you or not.It's like a balloon.It is unlikely that it is suitable for every day life, but to vilify the rope is ridiculous. "
So I want to take these big words and gold where immature girl's soul get their information about relationships with the opposite sex.Because this information field, like a big Garbage Patch in the Pacific, formed a suspension of junk like "find their own destiny," "My betrothed disguised", "love forever" and "not a kiss without love."
In practice, relationships are often a heavy burden, a problem that must be solved, successfully overcoming the difficulties encountered on the way - its coldness, lack of initiative and lack of attention, waiting for the ephemeral rewards, the apotheosis of which will serve as a tombstone with your name.And why is it, tell me you need?Furthermore, note that if a man does not entertain, and does not cause joy, some concrete actions from him hardly wait.
And if you accept as a given that men are to have someone to entertain you tonight, poison jokes, entertain "daiquiri" and playing an invisible guitar, many silly problems will disappear by themselves.And even if every night you amuse different men - that, in practice, in addition to self-esteem, it allows you to make leisure more diverse and multi-faceted: some of the men cook, someone will fix the socket, and with someone for hourstalk about literature, applied linguistics or programming.
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