Who we are no good and the conventions of society?Man, as a tabula rasa, a drive and reflector of all that rich society, or rather what is significant for the individual within society.
In the pursuit of social benefits, people forget about the duality of his own nature, that, in addition to the world of rags and machines, social roles and status in society, there is a world of each, deep inside the world.It is regrettable to see that many people do not disclose it, pozitsiruya themselves with the world of things.This is due to several reasons:
1.kto easy afraid of being misunderstood, perhaps having a bad experience behind him;
2. Who is playing a double game in the pursuit of "success" in society;
3.A someone even thought about the fact that this world exists at all inside it.
Man by nature is always looking for a stable kernel in what else, which could be a start in their future searches.Ed hoc sort of existence that wants to see and the people around him.But only relatively stable at the beginning of man is his soul.People often mistake the other due to the fact that they can not distinguish between public and individual to individual.It is known that people in the community, the crowd begins to exhibit uncharacteristic in his ordinary state of consciousness of the individual behavioral traits, both positive and negative.
What is man himself-for-itself?
Asking such a question, automatically give an answer to the other, no less important: "Why do people behave this way and not another?".And the answer to all is social.
man chooses his social benefits, social success, rather than a spiritual self-improvement, as the social characteristics more clearly, and many people are willing to self-assertion, the result of which will be most clearly seen by others.
Why all the rush?
Here are some disadvantages of sociality:
1. When you're different, you may not know: you you push her unnatural inner beingness
2. In the case of social failure, loss you get blindsided, to be alone with himself, realizing the absurdity of their existence.
And what you really are?
man wears a mask all the time, but when they are often changing, trying to concisely implemented in different situations with different people, it is difficult to identify clear already, I have no diffusion sutselnoe Other.What am I or who am I?Masks, this makeup is so tight to you, to your body sociality that you have to lose the ability to remove them, they get used to, your body grow into spiritual beingness.I think this is one of the mechanisms for the acquisition of the multifaceted nature.
And, as you become part of the mask, and as such, the social layer of dust obscures your soul, your inner world.
I do not call to absolute confrontation itself and the outside world, a sort of impenetrability, it is simply to be able to balance over this abyss.
People think that they are happy.Happy, buying cars, building houses.But is it?I remember the Aristotelian interpretation of happiness, which includes primary and secondary benefits.The primary benefit - this is happiness itself-for-itself within us, is the citadel of prosperity and tranquility.And people are turning to reach thereof have external mechanisms to achieve it.But many people, unfortunately, take them for the original purpose, content, in fact, small.I certainly understand that people with age do not become happier, but only reduce their desires bar, but still ...
man himself makes himself a slave of circumstances and commitments.
whole situation only serves to simplify and secure control mechanisms we have in society.What we should try yourself go beyond that, no one will fight for your happiness, except yourself, because it is you know yourself and feel what and how it should be implemented.
Be yourself: other leading roles are already taken!
