According to studies, 6 of all of our fellow citizens are looking for a partner for marriage in the internet, and a third of them are hoping for serious and lasting relationship.Find out "formula of male love" - the three basic rules of behavior with men that will help any woman to find a prospective husband on the Internet, as well as build a serious and happy relationship in real life.
Couples man
to approach the man is easier than to cook apple pie.Only three "ingredients", and he is ready to marry you.Record the "recipe" of the well-known analyst Andrei Baranov, which the author gives the pages of his new book "Internet psychology»:
«Men's Love = ability to listen to men and keep the conversation + praising his achievements, figuring in them + MEET visual images,which is like a man. "
And, at different stages of treatment of men need a special approach.After all, the importance of each component of the "Formula of Love" is changing with the development of relations.
If the beginning of the relationship a major role for the man's appearance plays a lady, with the development of the relationship, he begins to appreciate the ability of women to listen and to praise his achievements.
So, according to him, at the beginning of the development of relations "Formula of Love" is as follows:
«100% male love = ability to listen to a man 20% + the ability to praise him achieve 10% + match its visual image 70%".
In the process of development of relations between the percentage changes:
«100% male love listening man = 50% plus the ability to praise him achieve 30% + match its visual image 20%."
«For men are always more important to his case, as it keeps them on his self-esteem, - writes in his book, the author," the formula of love. "- Therefore, in case of changes in relationships, perhaps the problem is not you, but it matters about which he can simply ask, and do not come up with a new hairstyle and buy new clothes to attract attention. "
Three rules of behavior with men
From the "Formula of Love" follow three basic rules of behavior with men who work equally well both on the Internet and in real life:
1. Learn to listen to a man, without interruptingand maintain a conversation.
2. Praise his achievements.Even if they do not, the man will seek a real feat.
3. Men are almost always in the first place pay attention to appearance.You have to match his image and external attachments, for which he drew attention.
last point is only suitable to attract a man, but could not resist.The first two are suitable to attract and to keep a man.
Couples woman
But women love cut from a very different "test".Count on a serious relationship a man can only be the case if the woman will consider him as a potential husband and father of future children, who will provide them with good genes and will be able to support his family:
«Women's Love = empowerment of women + GENE POOL man + PREGNANCY + possibleprovide the child. "
If you go back to the language of numbers, on which the book is written by Andrei Baranov "Internet-psychology", then it will be clear how much for a woman important in the first stage of relations the gene pool of men, including his appearance:
«100% female love = raising the status of women 15% men + gene pool of 50% + 5% + pregnancy is able to provide 30% of the child. "
Unlike men, women's "formula of love" is more constant.Thus, according to research, women are always important for status and material well chosen.The only thing that will change with the development of relations - to grow a woman's desire to be a mother:
«100% female love = raising the status of women 15% of the gene pool of male + 5% + 50% plus pregnancy able to provide 30% of the child."
Therefore, to win a woman and maintain a harmonious relationship with her, the author of "The Formula of Love" advises men to talk to them in their language."Women are more interested in personal relationships, what works, why are you doing it is usually not interesting, even if you listen carefully, - says Andrey Baranov.- If you talk to a woman about interpersonal relations and its lessons, you will cause more interest than discussing with her brand of cars, football and new business deals. "
Meeting Place Can not Be Changed
possible to find a husband or wife on the Internet?Studies on the psychological aspects of communication in the virtual world confirm that the Internet provides an excellent opportunity to learn about the prospect of a serious relationship.
Judge for yourself - to get acquainted on the Internet much easier, much more choice, and candidates are very worthy of attention.Thus, almost half of men registered on dating sites, have a higher education, and 2% - even got a degree.
Besides, men seeking casual relationships on the Internet become increasingly smaller.The majority (75%) - it is just single men who are searching for their docile wife, a good housewife and doting mother to unborn children.
Intentions women seeking couple on the internet, no less serious.It turns out that just under half (42%) registered on dating sites girls are waiting for that virtual choices do they offer and will lead to a very real registry office.
Some are looking for the best partner for a long time, and it goes into a kind of mania, - the author of "Internet-psychology.But, of course, a lot of people meet, get married, create a family and have children.
How to attract a man on the Internet?
study showed that, getting on dating sites, both sexes tend to continue to behave as in real life.Girls just fill in the questionnaire and humbly take a wait and men - are active and there are even times too stubborn.
At the same time, methods of attracting the opposite sex on the Internet are unique and not found anywhere else.Therefore, women who decide to seriously find a prospective husband on the Internet, it is best to take matters into their own hands and act.
First of all, the girls should create an attractive image on the Internet, to choose candidates for husbands and actively communicate with them on men's topics - about sex, their achievements, cars and food.In general, you want Prince - satisfaction!
How to determine whether a man married over the Internet?
think is difficult to determine before the first meeting, in reality, whether married new friend from the Internet?Married men gives no trace of a wedding ring on the ring finger, and psychological behaviors.For example, married men avoid talking on the phone on weekends and in the evenings, often do not take the phone and call back only after some time, do not give phone numbers or asking not to write SMS at night.So be careful when choosing a partner and good luck!
Articles Source: resnichka.ru
