There is a strong opinion that the "sissy" - it is such a worthless scored, all beatable boy who is more pity and sympathy.Yes, mama's boy may be so.But it is not necessary that such a boy just because he is a mama's boy, this could be a very different reason.And most importantly, it can be a mama's boy with a strong mind and a very independent man like ...
Let's define! Mama's Boy - a boy / man who broke the tie mother-son towards a strong dependence on the mother.Dependence can be configured as a type of full acceptance of the view scripts, and the type of complete rejection "is not, she said, did, and so on. D.".
Full adoption - is the following types of the first and third.They know how to, and this life is easier.Only someone?
complete failure - the second type.They know how not to be, but what you need - no one showed, and there is no place to look.It is difficult for everyone.
first type - a typical representation for our boy / man.
"Hold On her mother's skirt," resolve all issues for a mom.First, it protects it from attacks at school peers, then teaches you how to deal with work colleagues.Usually, she knows his every move and directs all its actions and decisions.Such men, if they have a family, the choice of wife for him does his mother.Since then the three of them live: he, my mother and his girlfriend.
second type - demonstratively "did not cling to her mother's skirt."
show their independence, independence.Such Sons can be good leaders, realized in the profession.The relationship with the mother is usually very distant.He always has to keep her at a distance, so as not to burst into his personal space.A lot of energy is spent on it!Relationships with women are under construction difficult.Most are not built at all.Unconscious fear that the woman would just invade his space, driving him away from this relationship, not allowing to become close.If a man of this type and builds a relationship with a woman, he covered everything: work, hobbies, addictions, not to be close enough to her.Although he really needs care, attention, understanding.
This type most difficult to build a relationship with a woman.He would like these relations.But ignorance as it hinders implementation.There is a scenario that does not like.It was shown that the type of relationship that is applied to does not want to.But there is no script - as needed.We have to proceed by trial and error.Errors often irreparable.And one life.
third type - has found its niche between the first and second type.
These men willingly build relationships with women.They know as the image and likeness to my mother's.The woman - a second mother to him.It must be able to do what my mother can.It must also prepare, engage in the same kinds of needlework, just listen to him.It is with pleasure - not too lazy!- I ask my mother for advice on how to roll up a jar of pickles or something to add to the soup as wash things and a lot more useful things for his wife finds out that nothing has changed in his life with a family.This man seems to be a business, to delve into all.
not only his work he was doing!Already wife cope somehow with the soup.If a couple have children, and here mom teach prompt.After all, that's what brought her son!Mom happy looketh into everything everywhere have time, everything will take over.And then everyone will say, that's what it is - all for the sake of children.It turns out there was one person dependent on my mother, and now his wife, and their children.
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