usually think that in Germany - the progressive feminism.And all the women there are very independent.Still believe that all Germans ugly - it's because of feminism.Part of the way it is, but only a few people realize that gender equality is in Germany has a big problem, and that the Germans are very conservative and shy.
Yes, German women in broad daylight is not something to not dress up, but, in general, it feels like walking through the city in a coat on my pajamas.In mass.Although this kind of prejudice, as well as among the Italians, which for some reason, is considered a model of style and elegance, not too many really well-dressed people."All at once the best" - this is not the style.Of course, the mass Italians dressed more brightly than the Germans, but, first of all, it depends on the city, and, secondly, clearly - does not mean good.
Germany more modest and gray-blue-black.But in the evenings in restaurants, cafes, galleries you will see a very fashionable people.
Yes, the girls here are often not beautiful, but men are, in fact, are not painted.And if we are so used to that woman - raschipurennaya, and next to it - a man in jeans stretched, not the fact that this is a role model.If men refuse to love our natural persons, the question - why do we need such a man?
more Germans are paying for themselves - and it is true, already commonplace.Frankly, sometimes it looks hysterical.German woman herself can pay, for example, a girlfriend, or, conversely, to allow a friend to pay for itself, but if it is a man - here begins inflexible principles.Is this some kind of trick, really.In the end, 20 euros for dinner - not such a sum for which is to hold a rally in support of equality.
But it is strange that with all this, the German girls are very pinched.
Here I discover in Berlin recently opened store my favorite Spanish jewelry Uno de 50. rushes to the doorway and shouted: "Thank you, God!I'm so glad!What luck!How long have I been waiting for this! ".And I'm not even going to talk about that any German has these cries would experience culture shock - because it is indecent to speak loudly, if you are, of course, not the Turks.Because try wry look at the Turk - you immediately condemn all of xenophobia.
but the shop run by a Spaniard, so we had to yell (ie, HEX) enough.
And when I bought all sorts of things, we were talking about the fact that the local girls come, they all like (Uno de 50 can not not like it), but as one, saying, "Oh, I have to bring here for her boyfriend/ husband and show him. "And the drive.And they approve or not.
for Spaniard Evelina is a little shocking - despite the fact that she lives in Berlin for eight years.
see any German husband starts at some point to teach his wife: "Do not wear heels," "do not buy red lipstick", "do not go to clubs, I do not a girl."
This is normal.Here they are and are not, and do not go.
But domestic stories, but a serious problem - is discrimination against women at work.That is right, then all recorded.Laws everything.
But in reality, if you're a woman, you get even a small increase in salary is difficult.One friend, Christian, works for four.She is very single-minded, her whole life - career.And every extra hundred euros it has to beg, and then also work with double zeal.
And it's, in fact, not only in superior-chauvinists.Local women and do not know how to fight for themselves.They can not create a scandal, they can not insist on.
This is a real problem that all the time the newspapers and magazines.But nothing changes.
Another friend of Berlin, an expert on strong alcohol, get questions all the time: "Oh, how are you doing so unfeminine occupation?".This is the 21st century.
Even Russian women seem to be more progressive - despite the still rather patriarchal and heritage of the Soviet Union.Russian women are much more aggressive and assertive.
Not always, of course.I had a friend who worked for a long time in one publication.It was with this magazine in the most difficult times, even worked for free for a while.Once she gained a bit of money, but no one has never even hinted about it.I like her boss, she went to the authorities and said it.The authorities must say, eagerly raised her salary.But the fact that she herself would never dare.Because it is a feminine approach - think more about relationships than about money.Women tied, women are not able to claim.They were scared.
That is, many women do not have such an attitude - "Either you do something and then something, or I'm leaving."And even if you have nowhere to go yet, the man is ready to nowhere, but would not fall into his eyes.The woman - is not ready.Her level of responsibility exceeds the limit.And devotion.
Actually, these traits seem to be positive, but live badly hampered.Apparently, everything should be in moderation - or advantages become disadvantages.
It is certainly strange that in a country where one of the most powerful world leaders - a woman, and where compliance with all rules and regulations, women are still considered second rate.But it shows such a strange thing - much depends not on the letter of the law, but from the people themselves.
No one can force a person to feel free, but himself.
Arina Choline
Articles Source: euromag.ru
