7 things we offend their children

terrible mistake that adults commit under the influence of anger or indifference, without thinking what it could turn into a small child's soul.

One psychologist said, "At every opportunity - take your child by the hand!It will take a little time, and he did cease to extend to you my palm! ".

Everything that we do in the lives of our children, returned a hundredfold.If a child grows in confidence - he also learns to trust others if the baby love and support, he becomes attentive and caring.

But there is a terrible mistake that adults commit under the influence of anger or indifference, without thinking what it could turn into a small child's soul ...

We greatly offend our children when:

1. We do not understand!

13 years I fell in love.Eugene was an A - smug spitefully.But it seemed to me that he - the ideal.However, the ideal is not paying any attention to me, and I cried.A mother trying to comfort me, carrying a complete nonsense, "What do you mean!It's so serious.After a year everything g

oes! "And I did not want my condition was held in love.

Then I saw the same picture in the movie "You can not dream»:

- Mom, I love Kate!- Oh, do not be ridiculous.Such Cach you will have a million! .. - And why are you, the parents, all in advance for us to know?

2. Do not support!

Little Caruso ran home from school in tears, "Mom!Singing teacher said that my voice - as if the wind howling in the chimney! "."Well, what are you, son!Do not listen to anyone.You sing like a nightingale the most beautiful in the world.I just know it! "It is terrible to think that the world might never hear the great tenor, if not for this wise woman.Always tell your child, "You can!You deal with it! "- This is a very inspires.

3. Compare with other children.

«Look what Anya - neat and tidy.Not what you are - a pig! "Seems familiar?One can not understand what they want to achieve mothers, saying these words?Also hate to Anya, it is difficult to induce certain emotions ...

4. mocked!

We little sister went to the store.Sister was 3 years old, her face was painted stained green fodder: caught chickenpox.Saleswoman, who had nothing to do, turned in our direction, and giggled: "Oh, what a beauty came to us!Look! "I came up with only one thought: where would take a gun nearby and shoot them? ..

5. offends words and actions.

In 8th grade I considered myself very mature and independent woman.One day we sat with my dad on a geometry that my brain refused to understand completely.And then Dad slapped me in the heart ... of the pope!It was not so much hurt as extremely insulting!I've been talking with him.And he could not understand what really hurt me so much ...

6. shouting and beside ourselves.

I remember in the hospital, my neighbor, exhausted whimper her baby, grabbed him and began to shake and shout, "What the hell do you want?" I will never forget the huge, blue, terrified eyes of a kid who did not understand what was happening.It seems, then she herself was very ashamed ...

7. Ignore!

And believe me, this is the worst.Japanese scientists demonstrated worldwide experience with plants.Three of the same seed were planted three jars.Every morning, passing by the first banks scientist greeted rostochkom and told him tender words.Before the second bank, he shouted and called names plant insulting words.Third germ he just ignored not looking, passed.It is not hard to guess what happened with sprouts in a month.The first juicy green Spikes in the entire width of the window sill.Second completely dry.And the third - rot!Children also like green sprouts: parents reap the years is that nurtured yourself!

Now look away from the monitor and visualize your baby.Here it compresses chubby fists funny wrinkles his nose and smiling the whole width of his toothless mouth.And in answer to your chest turns something big and gentle.This kid loves you unconditionally: in any mood, any gifts, just because you - his mom or dad!And for one that smile you give everything in the world!

Keep this in mind as often as possible, and love your children!

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