Probably each of us have heard the word "integrity."But hardly anyone really thought about its meaning.Let's talk about who is a decent person, what qualities he must possess.
Who is it?
Psychologists say that a decent person - the one who lives according to the laws of conscience, as well as laden with social principles.He is honest, true to his word, for this reason always keep the promise, reliable, sincere and tolerant people.His friends and colleagues are appreciated, as it will never betray them.It should be noted that the honest man will always act honorably and with respect to other people, even he was not entirely familiar.He just can not help it.
If such an individual to lie or commit faux pas, his remorse.This person is always guided by this principle: "Do unto others as you want them to do unto you."He also sincerely hoped that the rest of the people live by this rule, and when he sees that his expectations do not match reality, greatly upset and disappointed in others.However, it continues to flow in a human.
decent person - the one who does good
continue to consider this concept in other aspects.What does a decent person according to the norms of religion, in particular the Orthodox?This one who believes in God, live by the commandments of God and never violate them.But here comes the interesting question of whether to be honest unbeliever.Of course, yes.A man may be an atheist, but always and everywhere to do what tells him own conscience, which for him is the supreme judge.
little about the fair sex
There is such a thing as a decent girl.What is usually meant by it?For a long time it was considered a special that honors the moral foundations of society, it has a young man, it is true that, as a girl begins sexual life after marriage.It is good to all, compassionate and kind-hearted.I must say that times are changing.Twenty-first century has made significant adjustments to the various concepts and, of course, expanded the definition of decency.If we talk about the modern girl, then, first of all, it should be self-sufficient.Only she must choose whom to build a relationship, what they will be.In all cases, a girl who considers herself a good, must maintain a sense of dignity.Nobody canceled excellent manners, intelligence and honesty.
origins
How is the integrity?It is an innate quality and yet we get it for you?A decent person - is the one who taught from childhood to act according to moral standards.He told about what is good and what is bad.His upbringing thoroughly engaged.A little later, his ideals form the book, and worthy friends.However, these factors do not play a role when the little man from the very beginning no shoots kindness.Unfortunately, all known cases when fine parents who put his heart and soul to the education of children, grow callous and cruel-hearted children.Therefore, definitive conclusions can not be done, as in any other life issues.
wolf in sheep's clothing
It also happens that such a mean person and good, always says the right words, trying to all get along well, cute, smiling, as it seems like a decent,but once you zateet common cause with him or ask about something, he begins to reveal its true face.That is why you should not judge people by words, should be evaluated by their actions.Decent people - is one that in any situation will walk worthy.
distinctive features
How to recognize a good man?Actually pretty hard, but you can try:
- If he promised to do something, it will try my best to do this, and if you know clearly that it can not, will not and promise.
- Such a person will never flattered, he is straightforward and sincere communication.
- He always kept with dignity, but evaluates himself and others adequately.
- You can never accuse him of lying, as he tries not to lie.
- At work he performs his duties conscientiously, never betrays his superiors and colleagues, trying to help them in any difficult situation.
- He honors of older people and always takes care of the children, even to strangers.
Perfect Portrait, agree?But what if a man stumbled and made some hard-hitting action?In life there is everyone, no one is safe from falls, because sometimes everything does not depend only on us.That is why you must learn to understand the motives of the people and forgive their small mistakes.
On the days of morals ...
You can often hear the opinion that now times have changed, and decency is not in vogue.The world is ruled by money, and everyone should live only for themselves.Tragically, many people do.They are important only "green paper", expensive cars, luxury items, parties ... But can replace material decency, kindness, spirituality, compassion, empathy, love, friendship?There are still people to whom these concepts are incredibly close, and a lot of them, believe me.It is important to understand that we are all in this world, only the guests, and it is important to take care of the moral and spiritual side, not the material.Let
on your way there are only honest and decent people!
