all human beings, regardless of gender, color, age and religion are united by one desire - to be happy.Just be happy, without thinking that prepares us to the next day without having to worry about how much money left in the account, you will win your favorite football team and there will be enough funds for new shoes from Gucci.
concept of happiness
However, each of us understands happiness in their own way.For some, happiness - is the health and well-being of loved ones;for someone - a dizzying career, a Swiss bank account, luxury cars and vacation in Hawaii.Someone sees his happiness in the glory and the recognition and creativity, and someone will be immensely happy to find a tiny piece of stale bread, which seems the most delicious delicacies in the world, and finding a place to sleep at-least for one night to the next morningagain to continue the struggle for existence.Various happiness even in the understanding of men and women.What a man needs to be happy?To establish themselves in their own eyes and the eyes of others, earn good money, take a certain position in society, to meet the faithful and caring life partner, and paradoxically, eat.While the strong man's shoulder, a strong family, confidence in the future, healthy children - exactly what a woman needs to be happy, or rather, the majority of women, not to mention those of the fair sex, who tied for first place self-realization and career.
We live and work and to fill life with bright moments, constantly wondering about what is necessary to happiness and how to earn it.Why should a man happy?Why is the meaning of life all of us comes down to finding this good?Identical whether the concept of "love" and "happiness"?A series of the eternal questions that have no answers.Because happiness is elusive, changeable and deceptive.And there is no clear set of rules on how to find it and keep it.
money for happiness or happiness in money?
One of the widespread belief that money makes us happy, unfortunately, is incorrect.Not even their number, as the French millionaire Paul Getty.60% of millionaires, show business stars and successful business people abuse alcohol and drugged in order to get out of depression, get sick more often and die prematurely from diseases caused by stress and injections, supporting youth and beauty.They experience the same feelings that people with limited financial resources, losing loved ones, worrying about the children, fearing the future, suffering from loneliness, betrayal and cheating.And no amount of money can give them an overwhelming sense of satisfaction and joy.
And sometimes how little is needed for happiness: hearty meal, and restful sleep;brilliant exam results;the long-awaited "love."Let brief but delightful moment of euphoria and excitement, which is independent of the number of bills in your wallet.
Labour as a way to be happy
If we believe the greatest thinkers and writers of books thematic meaning of happiness is purposeful work and toil.Lack of happy moments can be replaced with things you love, cutting the need for the happiness of his thoughts about the expected success and achieving the goal.And to achieve this goal - one of the components of a happy and self-sufficient life.Moreover, the process of movement to it, each passed stage gives meaning to existence, fills life with colors, hopes, sweet taste of victory expected, giving a wonderful, unique moments.However, in many cases, the end result brings a feeling of bitterness and disappointment instead of the expected joy.Why is this happening?
«Everybody wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness, all development takes place while you're scrambling to get" - said P. Coelho.Path successfully passed, the goal is achieved, and there is no longer of passion, of desire, of adrenaline fills life with a bright palette of feelings.What to do in this case, and how much more needs to be happy to pass these roads?Psychologists recommend regularly to set different goals and achieve their implementation.And then you can keep for a long time beside her changeable and capricious fortune.
love and happiness.The identity of these concepts?
Returning to the question of what should be happy, I want to say that a positive attitude, caused by overwhelming feeling called "love", has a beneficial effect on human health and life.Yes, it is able to make people happy, because the need for this wonderful feeling inherent in us from childhood, we have absorbed it with the mother's milk received from relatives and friends.Love and only love - what a woman needs to be happy, to shine in her eyes, to preserve youth and beauty.Love - is the very force that drives the world, softening hearts and inspire actions.Love, even unrequited, it encompasses happiness.Happiness is to feel, to tremble, to live another person, rejoice, worry about him, and even to suffer.Only love can give people a dizzying cocktail of feelings, emotions and the volcano Hurricane sensations.This is the highest feeling that all are worthy and which gives true meaning to our existence.
laws of happy life
Each person should have its own set of laws, "a happy life", which he guided to make it better and more interesting.These golden rules are a kind of line of conduct aimed at achieving the objectives, the implementation of desires and finding spiritual harmony.They are beautiful that are great motivation to success, formed the mindset, value system, and in any case will not allow you to give up, as a kind of answer to the eternal question of what should be happy.
victory over a
Conquer your inner "I" and inspired him to carry out his dream.Victory over oneself is one of the greatest deeds, worthy of admiration.Win yourself - is to beat laziness, banish doubt, inner fears, uncertainty and fill the mind with pleasant thoughts and the desire to achieve the goal.A realization of a dream, as mentioned above, is a condition that can make us a little happier.
Thoughts are material
We - this is the result of what we think about yourself.There is no need to consider themselves worthless, unnecessary, unlucky, because in your environment, there are people more successful, intelligent and bright than you.You will never be them, but can become what admire and envy anyone.In order to achieve this result, you just need to believe in yourself, try to see only the good in everything, to do good, to be aimed at success and not give up.Bad thoughts, pessimistic, whining and rejection itself - an evil that, sooner or later will destroy your life.
Generosity - a trait strong people
Learn to forgive and let go.Just a person who wronged you, you free your soul from unwanted memories and grievances.But releasing the source of the pain, thereby destroying the very pain, earning the right to a carefree and not marred by unpleasant memories exist.
Happiness is within you!
your composure should not depend on the wealth and values adopted by the surrounding society.Do not feel worse than others, if you do not have what they have.Happiness for each of their own, it does not come with the purchase of machinery, mansions, expensive things, and lives within you, quietly, yet you do not realize.
Do not compare yourself with others, do not let them form their own life scenario does not change yourself for someone else's opinion, and social stereotypes.The high social status - is not a guarantee of a happy and carefree life, but rather sorry for her copy.The harmony of the soul - is the simple happiness that should settle in your heart and sow it the fruit of love and luck.
dream. ... And suddenly come true?
to dream and believe in their dreams.Every dream has a neat feature implemented.Pay no attention to those who are trying to impress upon you the impossibility of its realization.The impossible becomes possible, this is a strong want.A person always feels weaker than it is, forgetting about the powerful internal reserves, which are usually activated in difficult situations.
Support Group
Learn to feel the people around them."The Audience" - a powerful stimulant, great support, and untold wealth.The wider your circle of friends, the more you have friends and associates, the happier and calmer your life.Learn how to gain people, be interesting to talk to, good listener, sincere and sympathetic friend.Know how to control their emotions, to understand and justify the words and actions of another person, to maintain his insane ideas and initiatives.And then you will have a reliable rear and a huge support group that will believe in you, follow you and take an example.Confidence in friends and self-worth - and what a man needs to be happy?
following these golden laws of life, you will not only succeed, but will find peace of mind, inner harmony and respect for others, which are integral components of the changeable fortune.
So what you need to happiness?According to statistics, happy people live longer and suffer less.Their life - a bright, sunny, interesting, they attract people like a magnet, infecting them with his enthusiasm, delighting raging vitality, it contributes to success, they are easy to put into life all dreams.You want to be like them?Quit complaining about the life and blame yourself for all the failures widely smile and look at the world from a different angle.It's beautiful, is not it?
