tearfully despair is often necessary to observe professional psychologists in their long-term practice, when women attend a session with the words: "I am boring, it disturbs my heart every day!"It would seem that the problem currently found, the main thing here - a mental attitude, but no!Awareness of the problem
for insecure people - is a series of daily events is no different, which is not impressive and did not inspire action.Thus, it is difficult to change yourself first, therefore, my life, because boring people - is a diagnosis.I am glad that everything is reparable, when a person realizes that he has a problem and it's time to be implemented within, the trend is favorable.
Basic expert help
Before you radically change the way of life, psychologists are advised to make internal introspection, disassemble shelves on their desires, preferences and understand for myself what kind of person you are.Ask subconsciously question: "Why am I boring? Why can not I be pleased with myself in everyday life?"The fallacy consists in the fact that the girls believe that the root of evil is in their interesting, which can manifest itself in the tumble misconception in dealing with others.Self-criticism is useful, but in limited quantities, you should not play too, to plague the body with negative thoughts is fraught with long-term illness, both psychological and physical.Disassemble the bones themselves, not in the literal sense, of course, open the possibilities.Posnov that your "boredom" is precisely in your hidden, you are afraid to express themselves, to speak, to avoid human judgment.It is important to understand what kind of opinion you are not crippled and it is you think there is a well-deserved place in the world.
Knowing his personality
know their personality, in fact - an interesting exercise as self may lead you in the nooks of your heart, hit the unpredictable results.The idea that you're a boring woman, leaving you at all during the study of their capabilities, talents and preferences.Try to create a list of what you've tried in life, such as public places visited, some cooking tasted, did any rash acts, important decisions, to change your life one day.If you do not preteen, the list would be impressive, it is important just to remember the little things do not even clearly marked.Select items that are a priority among the other, patting his hands for their work, the findings of his own person have to thrust themselves, first of all, you - is not hopeless.
Disclosure opportunities to overcome the boundaries
If the head still spinning thought "I'm bored," despite the passed feats from the list, it is time to resort to the unknown.Surely awakened desires that have not met in a modest your life: to learn the elementary technique of sewing, led by a brush on canvas, author hosiery manufacture dolls, chase the ball on the football pitch, to learn make-up skills.Millions of examples how to develop in various directions, it would wish.As a rule, the barriers are building ourselves, but the obstacles to the start of development of the individual does not exist, even in retirement.
Shock Therapy, or unusual circumstances
"So what if I'm boring and I do not notice a interesting features, despite the fact that life dealt different from each other occupations?"For such "blind" the girls individual advice - psychological shock therapy.You skydiving, scuba diving, swimming with dolphins or resourceful, on the contrary, with the bloodthirsty sharks, staged a fire show, shouting on a busy street, you happy?No?Then what are we waiting for?Next, meet extravagant actions, not typical for you!Believe zashkalenny adrenaline will make its significant business, cause a global storm of emotions, pleasant memories, which will be enough to share them with your family and friends, will tell about his friends and the unfamiliar.You will feel no doubt as to this stage of development of your personality is revealed, and then want to continue more and more.
Professional growth - result of developing personality
Suppressed depressive state customers visit psychologists that believe they have a boring job to do in this case?The answer is easier than they think - is to change the place of the ordinary dislocation.Deceived by their desires, even in his youth teens are betting on to specialize in college, technical school or any other educational institution.The problem is unformed views immaturity of character, lack of experience, which leads to an erroneous choice of profession, which is quite possible to grow up a solid worker, but at the same time, you can actually become miserable.As dismal statistics, 70-80% of people daily visit the unloved job, of course, most of them are not satisfied with the scope of activities not achieve any results.Be happy - a multifaceted concept, everyone has their own happiness, but the priority is to find yourself, find out what is really like.Never too late to learn themselves, implemented in other spheres of life, perhaps your calling - to make children happy, organize celebrations, and in the meantime, you're sitting in the office over documents dreary.
Influence of characteristic changes to privacy
heart of a woman created for love, affection, passionate relationships for the sake of the native man girl able to change, to adapt, to get better in all its manifestations, in order to please the precious chosen one.Not a single case when the girl on reception at the psychologist divided unpleasant: "The other day I was on a date, it seemed everything was going well, but at the end of the evening the guy said I was boring, and it is unlikely we have with him is something to get serious".Agree, really it affects self-esteem and makes to think over their own behavior.Females of its strategic nature can consider topics for conversation, seemingly unconstrained gestures, eye-catching image before going to a meeting with a man.But this is not enough to win due attention to the man, it is realistic to mix tactics of behavior with a specific chosen, because you do not know what he wants this very handsome.To the end of a promising evening did not sit with a questioning look "that I boring?"necessary throughout the period of the age of reason to grow in all directions, to know the science is not familiar to you, but interesting in its importance, affect the "male" subjects: cars, fishing, sports, guns, hunting.Comprehensive development even in small amounts is useful for communicating with the opposite sex, interest only female beauty, sex appeal is unlikely to drag on for a long time.
It is time to turn the inner world
commendable, when a person wants to change entirely and give up bad habits, change the style to create some creative way, although not all intuitive, and the interest is directly their individuality, to stop being boring, tedious.Extravagance is welcomed in such cases where the root wants to change lives, to change the type of activity, manner of communication, show outrageous in terms of feelings.The most important aspect is the self-confidence, confidence, determination in action.Do not be afraid to show discontent or, conversely, admiration, you will hear, therefore, notice, and will be required to listen in the future, if you do not slow down persistence in certain circumstances.Banal phrase "all in your hands" is just the place to be in the life of any man, even the most discreet and quiet, this is also able to change the world.
rapid path to full life
If you decide to change, are not going to stop before any difficulties, improve, develop, become attractive to most people, occupies a prominent position in the society, then it is time to take a few steps to the realization of hidden features, talents and desires.Psychologists provide a modest list of successive steps for self-improvement:
- Stop telling myself: "I'm boring."Otherwise, I am optimistic you do not see.It is known that lack of confidence in their own abilities produces vital passivity and restraint in itself.
- Look "a" with a mirror, examine every detail of the face, deep eyes, a thoughtful look, a look that others do not notice and identify features that are unique to you.Love yourself any understand, such as you - no, but it's individuality.
- set of training, both individual and group, is carried out in a modern society that is no longer a savage and well perceived by people, not only the attendance of trainings on personal growth is increasing every year.When training courses to adapt to life circumstances and personal development, it is easy to find new friends with whom there are also common interests, topics of conversation.
- than focusing on the opinions of others, it can lead you into a stupor life at a crucial moment of decision-making, no doubt, be confident in your own abilities and unwavering energy.
- should choose an interesting field of activity in which the focus will not fade, but only to gain momentum in full force, thus actually transformed from tedious scientist in unpredictable show Maine.Reveals himself, to know and believe only in themselves.
