Charisma have only a few, but her dream of millions.Man charismatic - a natural leader and a favorite of the gods, who leads the people.He in like a magnet that attracts and others.
charismatic - is what?
Translated from the Greek word "charisma" means "divine gift," "grace," "talent."Treat yourself to a man deprived of any talent - so put on itself and on all its future cross.Charisma to a greater or lesser extent, of course, possesses each.Not born yet not one person who would be deprived of the gift of God.It is present in every spirit, and thus, there are certain talents.
Argued that charismatic man - is necessarily a politician or star of show business.In other words, it is the presence of a large audience is an indication of its uniqueness and chosenness.But such a view is fundamentally mistaken.The charismatic personality has a very strong inner core and bold desires, inside always a fire burning, and that attracts others, if not forever, then for a long time.These are people who are attractive and attractive for its external and internal qualities.
How to be charismatic?
As mentioned earlier, within each of us there is a spark from birth, but because of the circumstances or a specific training over the years, she dies.However, all is not lost!By long training charisma can try to work out at.
very first thing - you need to develop the confidence, because it is difficult to imagine an uncertain and shy charisma.It is also important to have a personal opinion and did not hesitate to express it, is always responsible for their actions and are not afraid to take responsibility for them.Initiative, ability and desire to tackle the problem of the first, without waiting for support or assistance from the outside - are the hallmarks of any leader.
more desirable to learn to laugh at themselves, thus demonstrating that you, like any other, sometimes make mistakes or errors.Taking their mistakes and learning from the humor come out of any difficult situation, you are one step closer to his goal.After all, a charismatic person - it is also an optimist who is able to look at life and the complexity of some of life through the lens of a positive finding, and even in a negative situation is something good and useful.
And of course, in order to please the people, we need to get people like you.You must learn to listen, to be indifferent to other people's problems.The communication need to be credible and be able to not only show their best side, but also to show the other party of its own dignity, to make him understand that he is very interesting for you and his opinion is important.
Most importantly - always and in every situation, be yourself, do not try to be what you really are not.After all, people immediately recognize the lies and hypocrisy.Positive, openness and undying love for life and people are sure to help you find a charisma.
