Why is this necessary?
difficulties associated with sexual education of their own child, especially his daughter, familiar to every parent.The confusion, which is experiencing both sides "frank conversation" forces, at times, to postpone it to a later date.The main justification for this situation becomes a school, because there, and so sex education classes are held where explain, and that is the follicle, and how the menstruation, and by what means we need to use care during "critical" days.
Yes, these lessons are held in schools, but, as it happens in most cases, as soon as children learn that lesson will not be held on schedule - he successfully walks.And all of the necessary knowledge on this issue, the child gets on the street, in a vulgar and rude manner, from the older "comrades."And then the parents are left to wonder where the child was "picked up" so rude.Therefore, to prevent this from happening, you should definitely take the situation into their own hands.
difficulty understanding
How to explain to a child what the follicle and what he needs to know all the "indecent" subtleties?Well, firstly, it is necessary to clarify one thing: body girl growing much faster, and the time of occurrence of the first menstruation (approximately 14-15 years), it is almost completely ready to conceive.This legislation does not stipulate an age, but "Mother Nature" and "Mrs. Physiology" All the research so the "vulgarity" and "embarrassingly" become necessary knowledge just in this age.
Second, much better if the baby will be ready in advance what he will not be prepared and will get into trouble associated with fear the sight of blood and shame of what they see the blood and all the rest.Another thing - what words should be done talking.And can a child understand them?
Science - to help
The easiest way to explain to a child what a follicle - to resort to using scientific terminology.Only explanation is necessary to make a simple and understandable for all languages.Let it sounds something like this:
follicle - a bubble in which matures the egg (the mother cell from which a child grows up).It is a special organ - the ovary, which is the only women (tetenek, moms, etc.) and is located inside the abdomen, in the lower part.And as it grows, there is a release of an egg from the follicle, then the woman is ready to ensure that there was a child (fertilization occurred).If after a few days it does not, then the cell is washed with blood - there is menstruating.And it all starts over again.
It's just a rough plan explaining the situation, but it would be enough to obtain the necessary knowledge.Alternatively, you can provide drawings or illustrations of the story from the textbook.Make a more detailed story (start with the stamens and pistils, beetles, spiders, etc.) explain how to calculate the menstrual cycle, how to use the means of hygiene.In general - a lot of variants, most importantly - do not overdo it and do not deviate from the topic.
to be precise ...
If you look in a medical dictionary that is the follicle, there would be quite a different explanation: the formation of a bubble in vertebrates.And it can be placed almost anywhere in the body.It is not necessary to know the child, but it is useful to know the adult.As well as the fact that the size of the follicle with ovulation should not exceed 1 cm. Any deviations in size (either higher or down) may indicate problems with the endocrine system.
Required farewell
protect the child from abuse is impossible - as is the way our world.In any case, sooner or later, but the child learns "yard" and synonyms of what the follicle, and menstruation, and everything else that is associated with an intimate (and not only) life.Even without these words a person can become a member of the handicapped in our society, because otherwise even the wonderful medical specialist any patient confound their questions.So do not blame the child for the use of such words, it is better to let him know where and in what situations they should consume, and where - absolutely not.In general, early childhood need to instill a love of classical Russian language is rich in expressions and without vulgarity.And to put a "nice talk" it is necessary in the first place, not only resorting to arguments, but also by example.
