There are issues that can be classified as eternal.Humanity is looking for answers to them from time immemorial, to build various conjectures, hypotheses put forward, it was felt, but the fact remains that a clear answer to them is not and can not be.It refers to such matters, "What is love?".There are different versions in this regard.Science says that it is a deep intimate feeling experienced by a person against another person, idea or object which has some significance.For each of us love is different: for someone - this grief and cruelty, for someone - joy and pleasure, and for someone - a vital necessity, without which it is impossible to exist.
believed that children - very bright and selfless beings can most of us to feel what love is.Here are some statements toddlers who answered this question: "From love you smile, even when very tired," "Love - is when my puppy licks me and wags his tail, even if I left him alone at home all day," "If you love someone, you often talk about it, these people are not forgotten by this, "" Most of all I must have loved my mother - she always kisses me before going to bed. "All children can answer the question of what love is, but they do not even suggest that the search for it in the future is not so simple.This is not about love for the country, or the love of mom and dad.This love arises very early, almost from the cradle, we absorb all its manifestations.Family - this is the place where we first learn to love.No wonder it is believed that people always carry a model of relations in the family for the rest of life and marriage will tend to behave as well as their parents.
We all grow up and want to feel the love that can lead to long and romantic relationships.The problem is that sometimes people are too idealize this feeling and then the whole life becomes a futile search for the second half.After all, the scope of the senses - a zone of absolute relativity of everything.You can not be heroes of books or television films, your love will be very special and you will experience it in their own way, not like all the others.No need throughout life with explaining a clear answer to the question of what love is.One day, having met another man and passed him a certain way, you finally understand - what exactly this feeling, sensation, mood and strength, and love.
is important to distinguish it from love.Some people do not see the fine line that exists between these concepts.Perhaps this is due to the fact that love is often mistaken for love, and in our lives such unpleasant phenomenon of divorce.It is important to understand that love usually comes slowly and gradually.And love - the phenomenon of quick, rapid, it arises out of nowhere and paints life in vibrant colors.But the problem is that it is impossible to know a person in minutes.Reveal its true nature really only over time.Therefore we can not talk about love at first sight, as a real phenomenon.You can feel the affection to a man, to feel affection for him, or interest in, but instantly fall in love - never.
There are also differences in how the love and falling in love.First sometimes goes slow, painful and leaves a deep impression in my soul.The second disappeared as quickly as it had appeared.She leaves behind only a fleeting memory.In addition, love usually always feel only one person.A woman in love can sometimes be in love with several men for their different qualities.Love is always reconciled with disabilities appreciate the positive aspects of relations, nourishes respect and expresses a genuine interest and desire to help.And love - a sense of surface, it never delves into the soul of the one who is addressed.
As you can see, what love is, everyone understands in his own way.Most importantly, at a time when it will come to anything it does not confuse and from ignorance to lose.
