Create a new family is quite easy - you need to apply and simple to sign the registry office.To do this, do not even have to walk the wedding.But here's what to do next, how to establish the relationship between husband and wife after marriage, they know not all.
Preliminary discussion
What is needed in order to avoid any surprises after the wedding?Quite simply, you can try to discuss all the nuances of the future of family life, and you can even try to live together, looking, easy is a pair at home.So it will become clear whether the normal to improve relations between husband and wife after the marriage ceremony.
Roles
Everyone knows the old saying that her husband - a head, and his wife - the neck.It is not necessary to oppose this, because it is even more popular wisdom than just a saying.It follows from this that lead the family life of a woman should exclusively.But this does not mean that only a woman is engaged in household chores: cooks, cleans, washes.Roles in the house should be shared equally (of course, if the wife is not a housewife).A man does not make it more difficult every day to wash the dishes and in the output to help in cleaning.But it is necessary to teach her husband, still in the parental home, he could not do this.
Conflicts
None of the normal relations between husband and wife will not develop without conflict, there will always be something that will cause controversy and outrage one half of the pair.How to behave in such situations?A huge number of options, but there are a couple of very practical advice.Even in conflict situations need to think a head, completely shutting down the emotions, it will save a couple of the many protracted quarrels.Also, it is not necessary to beat the heat in the conflict on the most sensitive places of a loved one, make it easy, but then have it all and rake.And another tip: in a quarrel not affect the relative worth its second half, however harmful they may be.All the same, for the partner they have been, and will remain a family, do not "beat" of the most expensive.
Leisure
What other advice can give psychology?Between husband and wife will be fine when the couple is a common hobby, and they can spend their free time to relax.Good for this also have a common circle of friends.After the couple should support each other not only in sorrow but in joy.But it is also important not to overdo it, because each partner of the pair is needed and a separate vacation, say "vacation from each other."Therefore, run by his half is not only possible, but necessary.But it is always better to notify your loved one, whenever you want to relax in solitude so as not to disturb him unnecessarily.
Trust
None of the normal relations between husband and wife will not be built without trust.Always and everywhere.If someone came secret, it can be said, the beginning of the end.But there is also split zone.There are specific things that just do not need to know the partner, it is not necessary to let a loved one (-s).The rest - only the trust and no secrets.
Addressing
And another very important piece of advice.To have a normal relationship between husband and wife, it is necessary to solve all the conflicts that arise.They can not be avoided or postponed.If something does not like or are not satisfied, all you need to immediately "lay on the table."And if you save up resentment and disappointment, and then all of a heap dump on her lover, this better not be anybody.All the time and in order, then the family will be peace, peace and mutual understanding.
