Psychological features of the person always interested scientists and have been the subject of numerous studies.One of the strongest factors influencing the person's identity and his relationship with others - self-centeredness.What is this feature of the impact it has, how to overcome it?The answers to these questions will be curious to anyone interested in psychology and self.
egocentrism considered feature of the human psyche, in which he can not and does not want to accept someone else's point of view and put yourself in your opponent.Egomaniac refuses to accept the fact that other people have a right to their own opinion, and believes that it is only human.The egocentrism of children's thinking - a natural phenomenon for kids 5-10 years old.Numerous experiments conducted with children of this age, prove their inability to see the world on the other hand, imagine how the object looks like this opposite side.But most of all, this feature is still in the more mature age.Many families in the relationships between people becomes a normal self-centeredness.What does it mean?The man self-centered, insensitive to others and takes everything through the prism of their own opinions.
People with egocentrism, feel as if in the center of the world, they think that everything revolves around them and their interests.The most common cause of this is the education and indulgence to all the whims of a person from childhood.From infancy the child gets used to the increased attention on the part of adults and especially parents.Gradually he realizes that there are certain ways that you can affect adults and get them to fulfill all desires.With age, this feature fails and becomes even stronger.The need for attention goes beyond the home and parental love.The child wants to be the center of attention in the kindergarten or school, in the courtyard and in the company.Gradually these needs grow in the peculiar form of self-assertion, in which even love possessiveness assumes full occupancy person.Thus is born self-centeredness.What this means for the future of human life?The lack of spiritual development and cruelty to others, inability to establish sincere relationships based on mutual understanding and love.
Overcoming egocentrism begins with awareness of the availability of human problems and its desire to win.The ability to understand that everyone is different, everyone has their point of view and the right to defend its own interests, given a hard time.But it is a step in the right direction.Many families, couples and partners kept their relationship so that came to the inevitable collapse of the lack of understanding and willingness to look at the situation from the other side.
Proper education of the child is able to prevent the self-centeredness.What does this mean in the context of modern views on the education of children?In a world of great opportunity and permissive parents, it is important to convey to the child the value of trusting relationships between people, based on generosity and understanding.
