Love - is an art, and the present work.Love - it's an ongoing process.You can not just go and sincerely and unconditionally love someone.Life is not like a blank shocker, and for every true relationship is a lot of difficulties and stages of love.One of the most sublime of human feelings is seen in the theory of relations, psychology and sociology.Modern science will allocate seven stages of love.
Love
At this stage, the whole world seems to be the decorated in the most vivid colors, all shining and sings.In the first stage of love special body releases the hormone responsible for happiness and pleasure.During this period, do not take serious and responsible decisions, as the person is in a state of euphoria and drug intoxication.
Sated
need for having fun constantly requires more and unique dose.You can not enjoy the same cake or chocolate for a long time.So at this stage all the euphoria of love comes a logical end.But you can not say that this is a dead-end stage for a relationship.
rejection
What seemed incredibly beautiful and romantic, runs through your fingers like sand.All is not perceived in the best light, which leads to constant analysis and mental anguish about the correctness of his choice.Many people get divorced at this stage of love, rejecting all attempts to find points of common development.
Patience
One of the most difficult steps in the achievement of true love.He wants the person or not, it takes place inside a real war between the desires of the ego and the needs of the beloved.Often the loved one becomes greater, there are children.And at this stage of love, more than ever, you need patience to get a snake.
ministry
There are still two stages of love, and more than half of the way - behind.Defeated at the last stage, the ego goes by the wayside, and the service of a loved one becomes the most important priority in the life of marital relations.
Respect
real respect for the spouse or lover can only come after a full service to its interests and reciprocity on his part.
Love
«And they lived happily ever after ..." True Love, you will not find in the movies and books.As a rule, the whole love story ends in the first stage, leaving the reader or viewer with the belief in the vast and constant happiness and understanding.Only after passing through fire and water, struggling with different predators on the way, you can achieve true love.It lasts for a month, not a year, this is the path length of the decade.
stages of love through the eyes of a psychologist - is a set of related items that are held every couple in the process of formation and strengthening.But you can not say that it was on this route developed all marital relations.Someone might get stuck in one stage, and someone to follow a very different path, reaching the finish line faster.The main thing to realize that love is - it is hard work, analysis, willingness to compromise.It was written a lot of books, many of which are not worth a penny.One of the best books about love is a labor of Erich Fromm's "The Art of Loving."
