We are used to that stubborn - is a person who has some negative qualities.But actually it's not so bad.The owner of this character will always stand up for themselves and do not allow anyone to operate a.After all, how often we can not simply deny a person.And the other is quick to notice and begin to use it for their own purposes.After the shift to us a whole load of problems, and we will silence them for a drag.
Obstinate - a man or not?
The owner of this quality never not depend on anyone, and owes nothing.He has his own opinion about everything, and he always defends him.Obstinate - a kind of person who easily can someone refuse.He will not call and ask colleagues to help with something at work.And he himself will not linger there late to help his employee."What about the kindness and mutual assistance?" - You ask.Everything has to be a limit.It is not necessary to run at breakneck speed when a phone rang.And a stranger does not need to tie a hail-fellow conversation.We must learn to say "no."If you've done something, we do not expect that you get something in return.Give only when you really want it.After all, a person who possesses such qualities are much easier to live.Do not think about how to tame the obstinate fellow.It is better to take his example and be a little bit tougher.
Obstinate girl: taming
There are many ways such manipulations.One of them is physical.Practice shows that it is very inefficient.The moral and intellectual, too, is unlikely to be effective.If you use the financial, the woman is likely to submit to you, but it will be assumed that you are very greedy.But think otherwise.After all of these steps - just a routine, that no one likes.Every woman is mother since childhood teaches us how to live in a family and treat her husband.Men do not receive such training.As a result, we see that many young families controls mom.We reprehensible attitude to my mother's little son, but it is perfectly normal - to my mother's daughter.It demeans men, because they want to be masters in the house, and their opinion was the main thing.And these ladies do not even try to preserve the family.After all, the status of "married" them in the pocket, and the rest is not so important.That's easy enough, they get divorced, and try to do it so that all know about it.And then begin to talk about the fact that she did not manage to create a normal family due to the fact that her husband turned out to be a goat, and a scoundrel.So it will have one to bring up children.And those men who have always been under the strict control of mother, too, is difficult.After all, they become accustomed to the fact that she is the boss, and only she knows how things should be.Here he creates a family and clearly follow any wife.He gives her around, showing their behavior to their children.And those, in turn, adopt a model of family and carry it into their adult lives.It turns out stubborn - it is above all independent and self-confident person.And whether or not it daunting to you.One thing is certain: women's independence can seriously affect family life.