has long been studied and described in detail the psychological changes that occur in a woman during pregnancy, but the experiences of the future pope has said virtually nothing.It is time to rectify the situation!
«Since the beginning of the rounded figure of his wife, I do not feel a sexual attraction»
During pregnancy sex life couples in one way or another changing.Many men, after learning of his wife's pregnancy, begin to live in constant fear that soon intimacy with your favorite stop for a long time.
Internally man still does not feel like his father, but each evening goes to bed with a woman who became a mother.
Subconsciously pregnant wife can resemble a man's own mother, who wore it in the stomach, and he can "get lost" in the form of its completeness.Moreover, even if the baby is not born yet, some men have perceived it as a contender as feel superfluous in the close relationship of mother and child.
The more jealous man, the less he wanted to have sex with a partner.There are also sensitive person who, during sexual intercourse feel constrained and scared: they are afraid to hurt both your child and the expectant mother, hurt them.In fact, the child is protected, even when the mother has sex.
pregnant woman wonders how she will become a mother, and the future Pope in the first place trying to figure out whether a family and how much influence the birth of the baby on his usual way of life.
«Is with the publication and meetings with friends will have to put an end once and for all?»
Some men are afraid of falling into the trap.Their freedom is threatened, and now they will always be responsible for the small creature.Carefree young man, ready at any time for adventure and entertainment, now has become a responsible father.
If a man thinks about life after birth, he also asks himself how he can cope with his new role as a father ... The unknown scares.
In such a depressed mood expectant fathers is nothing unusual.After some time after the birth of a baby is usually returned to the man of mind, if he sees that his wife still cares about him, too.
«I am afraid to attend the birth»
birth of a child is on the verge of the sacred mystery.Men often difficult to survive the birth process.He may be scared that he could not help his beloved when she is sick, could not hold back the emotion (and in fact he was taught to be cautious).
Despite the fact that today more and more men are willing to be present at birth, it should not become a mandatory and universal practice, in particular because of the risk of possible problems in sexual life couples in the future.
future Pope did not have to go to give birth, if he is not prepared for this.But this does not mean that it should not be nearby.
«I'm afraid of responsibility ... I want to run away!»
In the new circumstances, for both man (though, as a woman) must change its status as a "child" in the status of "parent."This dizzying change for both!
pregnant woman wonders how she will become a mother, and the future Pope in the first place trying to figure out whether a family and how much influence the birth of the baby on his usual way of life.
In addition, for each person waiting for a child also means the change of generations, which eventually will go, replaced by the next.There is nothing sadder thoughts of death!Such questions are common to men and they are partially reflected in their behavior.When men feel useless, they begin to act.
some "forgotten", fully immersed in work, sports, male company and endless meetings with friends.Others assert themselves in their masculine qualities, deceiving beloved.
When changing a woman's men need to strengthen their masculinity.Often the psychic conflicts are manifested somatically: extra weight, back pain or the appearance of the abdomen of a future pope.Each meets fatherhood as you can!
«Now she is talking about the child, endlessly calling mothers and girlfriends»
This is not unusual.Pregnancy is a period of transition in a woman's life, from the status of "mother's daughter" to the status of the mother of their children.
During these changes, the expectant mother is looking for support and advice from other women in their environment, have already experienced the joy of motherhood, and above all from his own mother.
have any pregnant woman has a need for support that it, in addition to native mothers, can also give a sister, a friend or even partner.Future Pope, feels a bit away from the sorority at this point should try to accept the situation and treat his wife tolerated, encourage and support her in every way!
«Her body has changed.What if she will not, as before? »
During the first 9 months of a woman's body is changing, undergoing hormonal changes: the skin adjusts to the tension, increases the sensitivity.Changes and look at your favorite men.For one, there is nothing more beautiful than a woman's body, the sublime motherhood.Another unpleasant to see how your favorite is gaining weight and losing shape.
In fact, most of those fears have deeper causes.The future pope is aware that with the birth of the baby's life will change, that his beloved woman will no longer be that carefree girl with whom he had once met, and now in the first place for it will always be a child of his opponent who has mastered not only itsbody and thoughts.
But despite all this, man must understand that to be a father, it also means to leave a portion of their "youth" habits and dreams in the past and to take responsibility for the family.Well, about the figure of the beloved general do not worry, over time, the weight will definitely come back to normal.Believe me, she wanted this as much as you!
Many men learned of his wife's pregnancy, begin to live in constant fear that soon intimacy with your favorite stop for a long time.Internally, the man still does not feel like a father, but each evening goes to bed with a woman who became a mother.
«Will my wife's time for me?»
This question involves including: "Will we be lovers again when the baby is born?".During pregnancy, the beloved man is gradually coming to the realization that now it pays less attention to it than ever before, and increasingly focuses on the child (which is quite natural).
Then he begins to think that after delivery, this situation may worsen."When a child is born, whether she has the desire and the time to think about love?", "Are we still have sex?" Rightly asks himself a man.
In fact, the future father is already preparing for life after the birth of a child, namely, those few weeks after birth, when the woman lives only for her newborn.
If anxiety and doubts arise too often, it is better to speak frankly about it with your partner or have "held the Pope," who has gone through the same experiences.After all, men also need support!
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