Each of us must have felt a sense of dissatisfaction with their lives, their position in it, and himself.Everyone at least once decided: "Everything from Monday begin a new life!" But Monday was advancing and new life there ...
If you have firmly decided that it not continue be so - it is wrong and unnatural, if youreally decided to become a free, happy, successful, and change your life, fill it with new colors, impressions, meetings and interesting people, here are some simple tips based on their own experience.
1. Do not think about the bad, but the good
about positive thinking does not know today just lazy, but it really works!It does not matter whether you believe it or not - the power of thought of this at least in that it gives us hope, and hope gives strength to move forward.Without faith - if not in success, but at least the possibility of success - do not even start.You will once again make sure that nothing can be changed and must be content with what we have;letting in his life hope you leave the window open for a miracle that will certainly happen to you, and then a faint light of hope will break out into flames - faith in their abilities and knowledge that all will certainly succeed!And yet: "We just learn to wait, you have to be calm and stubborn ...".
2. Remove from my life the concept of "laziness" and "Fear»
laziness - because it is impossible to change their lives by thought alone, it's obvious!Changes - is action, not always correct, not always successful - nothing, basketball ball, too, sometimes beating on the arc of the basket, before dropping it.But the road to success, no matter how you do not represent, always goes through real steps and deeds.And the only criterion for the adequacy of action is an honest recognition of myself that I did everything that depended on me.
fear."A long journey begins with one small step", but this is the first step, and we are afraid to do.We are afraid of changes that will lead it, because each of us had a bad experience;afraid of losing that "overwork without Nurse folder is acquired» ...
Come on you!Is acquired makes you happy ?!Makes?Really?Then why are you reading this ?!Then that everything was gray, boring and monotonous, and change it oh how I want!But scared because I do not know what will come out of it, and suddenly even worse ... And that is acquired, there is consistency and confidence - even miserable, but my!So quietly in thought but doubts and limped to the old age, the same miserable as life lived - for scary ... 3. "If not me, then who ?!»
3. «If not I, then who ?!»
This short phrase - Declaration of taking responsibility for your life and your future, because no one except us, is not responsible for it.All the circumstances of the people, the events that happen to us, can only lead us to the adoption of certain decisions, but we always have to choose!And sometimes circumstances choice is placed between black and white, but in fact there are plenty of other colors and shades!
choice between black and white - the choice unfree man, he imposed from the outside, is the choice of bull, which led to the slaughter, and asked to choose the kind of death to die.A free man decides what colors to paint my life, and between black and white chooses purple with red stripes.But you need courage ...
every day, maybe even every hour we have to make choices, and what whatever inclines us circumstances responsible for each action, for each decision, because in our lives takes place, andin the end, and our very lives is only ourselves!This may sound scary, but if you think about, along with the responsibility for everyone, even the smallest step, each decision also provides great freedom!That unique, maybe the freedom that we have can not be taken away - the choice!
And if you do not make this choice, it is made for you!And yet, even if the choice is made for you, this is also your choice - give someone the right to decide your fate.But then what do you expect?What differentiates you from that bull which dragged the rope to the slaughterhouse uncle who allows himself to make decisions?
If one day you will like this idea, no one will ever be able to impose their will on you, and of an obedient bull you will become a creator of your life!
4. If the target is set - it should be done!
deferred once the task is to create a precedent that you will be using more and more, and gradually find yourself in the same hole from which tried to escape.Movement toward the goal, whatever it was, it's concrete steps in this direction.Without them, you will never reach the goal.
In fact it is no more difficult than, for example, train yourself to wash your shoes on arrival home - just a matter of habit.The first couple of weeks have to control myself, to remind ourselves about this, and then do "on the machine."But the results can give great!Simple math: if every day to make their lives better by 1%, then 100 days ...
5. No "If ..." and "What if ...»
We first spanking a child habituated to think about the consequences of theiractions, and that is exactly what often does not move forward!Presenting a picture of possible consequences, in half the cases we imagine a negative outcome, but this is only one possible!
must learn to become a "no-intelligent", iedeliberately ignore any of reason, after all, "only those who are taking absurd attempts, be able to achieve the impossible!"This does not mean that if you come up with the idea of opening your own business, you need to quit your job to send out the chief and run to register SP.But when the decision was made and an action plan is clear, you can no longer listen to reason - he did his job.Now it will only interfere.He tirelessly to paint a picture of failure and all sorts of negative consequences, so see. Claim 1.
And most important, have the courage to listen to your heart, because in the end, all that we are not satisfied in life, we change in order to feel happy.A state of happiness - is not to reason ...
«It's a pity to be very easy.Be happy - harder and better! "- Thom Yorke, English rock musician, singer and guitarist of the band« Radiohead ».
Articles Source: psylive.ru
