We are all human, all - men, all different, and everyone has his idea of goodness, justice and other moral and ethical values.As well as his ideals, which is equal to, which are guided in their actions.Of course, the vast majority can not please, and it would be foolish to try to tune out the general requirements: easy to lose oneself, own personality.Hence, it is necessary in this regard, on the one hand, to remain true to yourself, and the other - to try to meet the needs and demands of the reference group to which you belong, without going beyond the traditional, verified by centuries of moral norms.
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first lessons on how to become a good man, we get as a child.To help older and do not offend younger, protect the weak and not to give in to strong, try the dispute win logic, mind, not his fists, telling the truth and not lie to salvation, to answer for their actions and not hide any of whose back ... Do not be greedy, to share the latest with a friend or even a stranger, do not act meanly ... Be kind to animals ... To be able to stand up for themselves, for their beliefs ... The list is long, it would be, but probably cover all the nuances of how to become a good person,it is simply impossible.Recall the intense search for meaning in the life of Leo Tolstoy and his characters, their longing to be "very good", they are throwing, the moral quest, ups and downs.But Dostoevsky's characters?Anyway, all Russian and world classics, the best examples of literature gives us vivid examples of intense spiritual work.And because one thing is clear: without willpower, without that "the soul must work" we never understand how to become a good person.
And that means - strong-willed efforts?I think that is the ability to sacrifice their own interests, large or small, in the interests of the other.Concede where I want to insist on his.Donate that want to keep.Take on the part of the work or other responsibilities.Give advice or deed.In the end, to perform the feat in the name of someone or something.For heroism, courage, selflessness - the highest embodiment of the concept of "good" moral imperative, which followed people in extreme situations.
Examples of how to become a good person, we see all the time, and perform the feat in everyday life it does not necessarily.Be competent in some matters, and use it for the benefit of friends, acquaintances and relatives.Be careful son or daughter in relation to aging parents, devoted wife or husband - to its half.Respect the subordinates, if you go to the boss, and not fawning to higher ranks.Maintain integrity especially in respect of themselves - also means to become a man.Do not compromise on the moral principles that are considered definitive.
And finally, the most important thing.As already mentioned, the "good" - a subjective concept.A person may be considered a villain in the community, but it will be good for someone who helped - whether the ruble, service, etc. DoEnlightened individuals, such as Christ, Buddha, or sages, teachers of Osho, the Dalai Lama, is extremely small, parts per million.Nor, as a small group of those who are engaged in charity from the heart of his heart, as did Mother Teresa or a Lady Diana.And that they do not become absolutes goodness for all humanity.Consequently, the question of how to become a man, not only because of the discharge of the eternal, philosophical, and, well, narrow group.His "comme il faut" exists in every single reference environment.Not all "outsiders" can adapt to it, and it is not necessary.
importantly, perhaps, not to be indifferent, complacent, do not live according to the principle of "none of my business."Try as far as possible and efforts to realize their positive potential.
