dislike - hatred is underdeveloped .If you hate the exposed nerve, antagonism and controversy rages spills in the confrontation and struggle, relations with hostility temperature does not reach the boiling point.Here, "allergy" can not stand, from him sick, it just does not digest, do not want to see him sitting in the liver, it does not want to hear from him a headache, it is the throat, strangling resentment from his antics fromTalk to him a bad feeling, because of him a bouquet of illnesses and other troubles.However, to direct confrontation is not reached.In other words, the hostility - is unfriendly, hostile attitude towards someone or something.It should be "allergen" to appear on the horizon, he immediately switched dislike button.Why is this included strong negative emotions?
hostility - a dirty trick of the subconscious.This emotion is one of the most uncontrolled, departing their subconscious as the devil-the-box.We see the world through the prism of his subconscious.In our internal computer recorded programs and files, which we did not even suspect.When look through this prism signal a sharp disparity person our requirements, there is hostility.For example, you enter the elevator, and there is a well-dressed, good-looking man, but about the smell of sweat, you can write a poem: watery eyes, like a week cleaning the bow."You on which floor? - Breath kills outright.The subconscious mind, remembering how life has undergone in the last gas attack at Ypres, gives an alarm signal, "Save yourself!Strip! "You jump out from the stunned view of the elevator at the nearest floor.The next time you meet with this man you'll be guaranteed to give him a lift.
hostility, unlike hatred, is non-antagonistic character.Tellingly, it can occur suddenly , as a reaction of the subconscious to "allergen."This circumstance makes it difficult to control hostility.But all is not hopeless.Knowing the cause of hostility, and you can find an antidote against him.
It would seem, hostility appears as an automatic reaction of the subconscious to the stimulus, as an unconditional reflex to "allergy".However, we do not have an aversion to iron, electrical outlet or hot water, though each has a sad experience of incorrect contact.Why should we, the mechanism sometimes inexplicable hostility to a random person?
Any stranger instantly scanned our subconscious to detect analogies in the past.If past analogues cause us positive emotions, we are sympathetic to him, though the man has not uttered a word.But when the last analogue "let us down" if in our file cabinet "lit up his fingers", the subconscious has sounded the alarm.Women against scan others, the real masters.They are able to scan for ten minutes and fifty pairs of strangers and then accurately delineate the nature of their relationship.
I remember the clip of Michael Shufutinski "Guest Night".Ten-year boy in love with a lonely neighbor in a communal flat.Trying to arrange their own destiny, she meets up with different men.The boy from the hostility and jealously watch the action.Look offers all imprinted in his subconscious.As an adult, when they met a man like him unconscious instantly make "fingerprinting" the stranger's appearance and give the verdict: "Bad!ยป
dirty tricks the subconscious mind we can understand when a negative situation last project onto a "scapegoat".We have a child accused of misdeeds, witnessed by a friend of ours.After many years, we have met, but do not feel joy, because the sediment remained.Some, as in the joke: "Rabinovich you we were yesterday in the party?" - "It was!" - "So after you left lost silver spoons!" - "But I did not take them, I am an honest man!" - "But spoon still missing!So do not come to visit us! .. Rabinovich, found a spoon! "-" So, you can come to visit? "-" Uh no, spoons found something, but the sediment was! "This precipitate as a bad jokesubconscious, is now projected hostility to Rabinovich.
often the cause of hostility is mirroring our negative qualities in the antagonistic person.We'll find out I'm part of his negative, it becomes unpleasant, born dislike.Terry gossip, seeing in his more talented rival, will test her dislike.The tram lout unkindly will react to his brother.Man with painful thoroughness relates to purity, but at every step faced with "mud."If you look into his soul, immediate cleaning was in the days of the king of peas."Dirt" of the world - this is only a reflection of his inner "dirt."
Therefore, if we have a dislike for his own reflection in the behavior of the other person, it is necessary to change not reflected, and ourselves.We unreservedly the rule: we have the right to be themselves and each other.For example, we note a greed, and we do not like it.To curb the hostility to greedy people do not have to struggle with the greed and try to become a good man.When we do kindness to their advantage, greedy people will no longer make us dislike.We will look at their greed as a feature of behavior.A good man, Elijah met today, boxes and Miserly Knight, only to be surprised the variety of the world."What a bizarre form of existence of matter," - he exclaims.And there are no negative emotions.For no reason to dislike.
Indeed, the world would be impoverished if it were only our counterparts.No one has yet come in the head to make a film in which all people would be the same.Wherever you go, everywhere you are.I came home - where I'm sitting.Probably, such a film would have been recognized as the best horror films of all time.Coming out of the cinema, you have relieved she said: "It's great that we are all different!Now I like all people, regardless of looks, smells and quirks of character. "
Dislike afraid of laughter as dirt washcloths.Funny is not dangerous.Draw the "allergen" in an exaggerated, caricatured.Try to make your drawing was funny for you.The hostility disappears.Or, conversely, mentally draw a disgusting image of the "allergen" that its actual implementation will seem to you an angel.
general "eviction" of any negative emotions from the subconscious effectively through fear.The subconscious mind listens to horror stories.If we wish to "evict" from the subconscious aversion, we need to show the benefits of his absence and the harm to our health from the presence of.
no secret that hostility is inherently aggressive negative emotions directed at the outside world.Reflecting, it brings such "gifts" as oncology, skin diseases, psoriasis often, alcoholism, drug addiction and a stomach ulcer.Consider whether you need such "gifts"?Life dislike port is not someone else, but you and only you.
recommend to adopt a couple of positive statements and incorporate them into your subconscious.Hitman hostility can become statement: "I decide that every person has the right to be myself," "I decide that I'm interested in all the people," "I decide that hundred flowers."
