For some people July - a month is associated with a carefree, summer holidays and sometimes holidays, while yesterday's schoolchildren survived ayut not very nice, but perhaps the most important period of his life.Before graduates of the task - to decide what vocation and make a choice, which used There will depend the whole future life.This choice, certainly difficult and, therefore, deserves close attention.
Difficulties self
In order to properly determine that a vocation, the first thing you need to dismiss all that confusing and directly to the question does not apply.It is necessary to try to abstract from friends, acquaintances, relatives, their individual and not of tips and considerations.
should forget about what is fashionable, popular, prestigious, and thinking is not primarily about money, but about yourself.Yes, a little healthy, or if you prefer, the natural selfishness is not hurt, because very often the children who have been subjected to pressure adults (parents, grandparents or older friends), substitute their aspirations desires of others, referred to the case of his life is not his own,and other people's unrealized dreams.Is it possible to find a more effective way to permanently ruin a man's life than to force him to do what he does not like?Hardly.
calling and favorite thing: where is the line?
Asked about what a vocation, it is important not to allow substitution of concepts.People often identify with their favorite business destination, while between these two human incarnation there are serious differences.So, a vocation - it is not just "my favorite profession", but something more abstract and less tangible.It is, rather, a kind of personal motion vector and the location of interest, or, if you like, a reference to which should be a lifetime endeavor.Thus, the purpose, rather, a philosophical category that describes the view of the world and man's place in it, while "my beloved profession" - a concrete manifestation of human destiny, those building blocks, of which the sum and the way in this direction.
By the way, if there is, for example, the difference between being a teacher and being born to be a teacher?The issue only rhetorically.
Calling - the inheritance of the elect?
Purpose, anyway, is inherent in every person, as a representative of the human race is a huge piece of the puzzle called "Life."Only heroes and geniuses to be given not to everyone: some find their "I" in the family and relatives, others are living, led the endless thirst for heroism, others dream of improving the world.Talents diverse people, and that's fine, why blame a man for that uncertainty, coupled with the uncertainty he prefers "a warm nest", is hardly worthy.Purpose rights should depend exclusively on his personal choice, and to infringe on this choice - to encroach on freedom, which is an inalienable right of every member of society.
Is Deadly Mistake?
«To err is human", but people over the millennia of its existence, it was not possible to accept that that is perhaps even beautiful.
inability to be content available and the desire to fight very challenging to move forward.Errors - a natural part of our lives and put on his vocation cross, just because they could not be prevented, at least, stupid.Slips should be taught, but in any case not lead astray, because the purpose of human movement requires not only the selected line but also the ability to overcome all difficulties appear.And they will certainly quite a few, and perhaps happy in the end would be the only one who is not able to pass, but copes with the destruction of the illusory and not barriers to dream.
How not to go astray?
can long ponder and discuss this topic, even though the secret of success is actually quite simple: you need to be able to rest.It is important to find an outlet, a warm hearth, in which you can relax and come to his senses.You can not afford to turn to ashes because "burn" - means to reach a certain point of no return, when life suddenly loses its paint, and moving forward is solely by inertia.The feeling of fatigue tends to accumulate, and the more it is deposited somewhere in the bins of the human soul, the more destructive effect on the personality it has.That's when the mission becomes an incentive, and the curse of eternal strap, which can not, just does not work does not pull.Here begins a routine, frustration, and, as a consequence, depression, apathy, nervous breakdowns and prolonged depression.This question is not only physical but also emotional, psychological health, and therefore neglect this in any case impossible.
Where to look for support?
Hardly anyone doubts that "man needs a man."Nevertheless, many people underestimate the involvement of other people in their lives.However, without exception, every one of us know the feeling that once experienced Diogenes, with a torch going to look for someone.This desire, no more thirst bury his nose in the human breast, to feel the warmth, affection, encouragement, support, give everything that I want to express, and to keep silent about what is to be understood without words.
Behind every great or successful man were close friends, relatives, parents who cheered, comforted in sad moments and guided to the right path.Do try even for someone other than yourself, not nicer than to try just for yourself?Higher calling all people because in any case, one thing - to love and be loved.This is something that is worth living, and for what, perhaps, is not afraid to die.
purpose and ways to achieve it
question of vocation often catches by surprise, because on the way to the answer to his people meet a lot of confusing factors.For this kind of factors include, for example, the desire to earn a lot.This, of course, there is nothing wrong, but exactly as long as wealth does not become an end in itself and not a substitute for all human values.In the first place it is important not to cross the line when the end justifies any means.Calling can be fun only if not broken the supreme moral law.Human history, the experience, the literature clearly show that happiness is built on "the blood of others' happiness, in fact, is not.And if this realization comes to the man at once, you will certainly overtake it in the future, making cruel to pay old bills.
Can I be disappointed in his calling?
But not only the meanness makes us unhappy.Work for the soul is often contrasted with the work for the money, then how exactly this is one of the reasons that people eventually give up on their chosen vocation.It is possible that if you do not put these two concepts on different sides of the barricades, the problem will be solved?
person in fact required to become rich, if it reaches in favorite business excellence, but if it is sprayed on the fact that he had not the heart, in the hope of mountains of gold, success is impossible a priori.To be truly happy, you must put your heart in your calling.The musician, for example, can write songs, trying to satisfy the desire of the audience and how you can make more money, but then he must be prepared for what will probably come a time when he will no longer be able to satisfy the desires of capricious crowd, and the public goodI turn away from him.What will he but regret the time spent in vain?
The true musician creates from the heart, so do not depend on the fickle fashion and remains in the memory of people not years or even decades.That such a person certainly can say that fulfilled its destiny.After all, in the end, what is the vocation, if not the ability to listen to your heart?
