I always waited for the prince will arrive on a white horse.From a young age he dreamed and imagined how it would happen.But, as experience shows, he used only on a white horse prince, whom I inexperience or desperation took over the long-awaited betrothed.What is characteristic of these "princes" and whether it is possible to learn to recognize them?
In fact, everything is simple.In order to understand what it is, your prince, you need to present it in all its glory advantages and disadvantages.Why do women often make mistakes?And because they are trying to attribute imaginable virtues to his newfound half.As a result, frustrated.Let's look at the main myths about the horses that make our lives worse, and at times nightmarish.
first myth
prince on a white horse ideal .The first myth has always been that if we liked the people at first glance, we ascribe to him all the advantages of supermen (well, or superwoman), without asking a single question.
Treatment : it is clear that from generation to generation, people are lazy and uneducated, but to find out where and what has been chosen as having fun, what movies watching, what books to read, and generally read that and more can be.Be interested friends and environment.Listen, not only that, but as he says.
second myth
prince on a white horse Trained .The most terrible misconception of the absolute majority of all the girls, and boys (although much smaller): "I can of his / her fix it!"Yes, you can not.If a person is young, he operates on the fact that "I want to act on their comprehending," and if the older man - "I'm an adult (th), my life has become a well-established and familiar, did not alter."Do not argue, there are exceptions, but they only prove the rule.
Treatment : if your man is not immediately realized that it would be necessary to change something in your life, try to chew lyrics in syllables.You will hear in response to the above argument, or a shorter "went to (a) ...", it is better to go.Next will only get worse.
third myth
prince on a white horse striker .Now it is very common a distorted view of love, when they hit (although usually the one who has, says that he was just a little slapped, or do not remember such trifles), grabbed by the throat, planted on the window sill of the fifth floor, to scare.When you read it from the outside, I think, "Since I'm such a clearly will not allow. And Sasha / Pasha / Dima just once broke and slapped. But he's sorry!"Ladies, and gentlemen too!So people are just excuses to spit.They fall on their knees, shed tears, beat in his powerful chest is not less powerful fist and swear that this will not happen again.
Treatment : hit once - strike two.This is reality.If you believe that every time will be the last, remember statistics about domestic murders.And even if before and did not come, it is not certain that you will live as before.The longer the separation - the jerks you in the future.Believe me, I took it.Seven years already, as parted, and I still twitch when I see a man like him, and if you see him on the other end of the street - and at the heart shrinks from fear.And how brilliantly I shy away from gesticulating people!Jackie Chan smokes nervously around the corner.
Myth Four
prince on a white horse dependent .This is one of the most terrible and bad choices.How many women take their pious of shamans, drug, Sage and psychiatrists.Years drive.My mother was such.Father luck would come and get drunk on the day of coding in order to prove that he was still uneasy.And then I turned the neck.Well, delirium tremens increasingly with devils came to visit.In short, a hell for my wife, for the children of hell, a hell for her husband.But there are times and terrible when it accumulate other types above princes.
Treatment : if a person does not want to change myself, you did not alter.Because only divorce and mother's maiden name.Or drive in all sentences and have been together for "green dragon".
fifth myth
prince on a white horse Mamin .Ever heard, a single that way a hundred a day, "Mom is doing differently", "Mom said," "My mother always we go on vacation together," and so on. D. Do not argue, I'm the mother, and I wantthat when his son grows up, he listened to me.But if it is so to speak - the first slap me and get it.But in fairness, I will make a pre-interrogation future potential brides.A sort of test for lice.
Treatment : there two ways: either by foaming at the mouth to prove his point of view in front of his prince and his mother, or to try to "bend" and win the future mother in law.No - then you need to head high go-ahead for a new prince.
Myth Six
prince on a white horse to assert itself .This type Princes I sign the same as and the striker, as they usually go in pairs.Humiliation in the style of the second half: "Yes, that's all I have, and you - nothing" - the opera painful self-affirmation.Another thing, if you have made a fair point that you are somewhere overdone or put a jacket without seeing spot.One friend groom a self-affirming.And she with him for more than ten years ... found.He does not call it marriage, is not satisfied in bed, and just in anything does not make, but pours mud "with a bang" even in the middle of the street.And she does not leave.At first I thought that suffers.It turned out everything is much more prosaic: a beautiful, sexy, wealthy girl thinks that if part with the guy that has ever left alone.And because he refused to well-paid job and marriage proposals more deserving young people.
Treatment : run until late.Lost faith in himself - lose everything.Will be restored later years.
The rest of the story
We reviewed the most common kinds of princes, and I gave examples as far as possible, make it clearer.For the future, so you do not worry, I will tell you that this is not a prince, and the horses, rode first.There are other types, who like myself regret, blame the other, manipulate people or even Othello.I think many readers, and readers can give such examples.After all, I fixated waiting prince on a white horse, but that's so wrong.And there would be even a normal horse caught!But no, "as one, all the selection and they guy Chernomor".But, as practice shows my friends, making a wish, let it go and forget.And it will come to you by itself, when you do not expect!
