self-identity is the ability to assess their strengths and abilities, treat yourself critically.It is the basis of the tasks to perform which a person believes himself capable.Self-assessment is an integral part of the management of behavioral responses.It affects our relationship with the environment and people, the level of wealth and life satisfaction.Note that this is a very important concept to understand, because we often forget about it and let us characterize the other, determine good or bad we are, good or bad, etc.As a rule, the game is not very positive person, because they derive from the stated benefits, and we doubt inspire and develop complexes.
But note that in all essential objectivism.Thus, the self-esteem of the person can be both adequate and inadequate.Depending on its nature have formed a real person, or the wrong attitude to himself and his actions.Of course, the first kind of perception is characteristic of an adult, the person held.The child, developing, can not correctly estimate itself, because in his opinion has a great influence society trends, the desire to be someone like, and so on.He can not adequately define what is good and what is bad, because his value system is blurred.
self-esteem and level of aspiration of the person should strive for a positive mark, at least, that recommended by psychologists.A person must be respected by others, as a result he starts to self-respect.Because we want to say about us is good, we have something for this undertaking, we try to get better.Of course, when one of the teen turns into a child comes to the fore the personal self-esteem, and not that of the people around them.Personality, soberly assessing their capabilities, puts forward a number of demands to himself and tends to their implementation.
Note that the technique of self-identity depends on many factors, among which are called:
1. The human status in society.At the individual who is born into the royal family, self-esteem will be higher than that of a medic who enrolled in medical school.
2. The element of suggestion.If a person is constantly saying that he - a pig, he would soon zahryukaet.This factor can not be underestimated.
3. Success in life and in a particular situation.Self-esteem of the person decreases when one person accompany failure.
4. to himself.If the subject himself "in trouble", he feels much better.
5. Belief in yourself and in your own success.When we believe in what we can do much, and we get a lot.It's the law.
Note that the developing individual, if the requirements for it are not the same, that she herself makes such intervention in the education of the outside end in failure.And the ability to act counter to the opinions of others depends on the stability of the individual.If the self-esteem of the individual and the people around score odds for a long period, often develops an acute conflict that could lead to a crisis situation.
However, remember that it is necessary to develop a positive self-esteem.Of course, no one talks about to throw adequate perception of the situation and indulge in idle dreams.As soon as you have a negative thought arises with respect to yourself, replace it with a positive.Do not fight the negative, just eliminate it.Look in the mirror, notice only the good and not the bad in their appearance.Each person has a lot of both positive and negative characteristics.Ideal not, so do not put on a cross.The more you see the good in yourself, the more it will be in you.
