What is kindness?Over this question at least once in their lives, each of us thought.Kindness can be called compassion for fellow creature.In some cases this is accompanied by sacrifice towards others and contempt for himself.In other words, when a person does not know how to refuse or say "no", then someone is accompanied by a feeling of pity, some by good deeds increases its level of importance and self-affirmation.Kindness can be selfless and pure.Although now it is increasingly rare.In general, the kindness at all different, but it is designed for one main purpose - to help another person.
Goals kindness
selfless assistance to another person must be one of the objectives in each of our lives.A helping hand is always needed someone, and it is necessary to extend, for ever any of us could be in place in need of a comforting word, a good deed, deed.So if you can help - it must be done.And with a conscience then some problems will not be.
Good people
good man - is the one who is in relation to other living beings does things that bring them any benefit.This mutual benefit is obtained, as the good deeds a person has raised its level of importance, self-esteem.And the one who rendered a good deed, to help in the decision of this or that situation.
kind-hearted man
Who is he?And today there were such people in our society?The kindest man ... So sometimes referred to some people.So describe the benefactor who is helping others and nothing for it does not ask for in return.Of course, so spoke to the surrounding, you need to make a lot of good things and to help more than one person.However, thanks and happy eyes of people are helping the needy in distress, if it corresponds to our capabilities.Such actions give strength, energized, spiritualize.
What to do to become good?
Since the birth of a child is pure and innocent, he is kind to all those around him, and only education, an example of the attitude of parents and loved ones to the kid make it good or evil.
Then the child grows, the character is formed, the attitude of the parents and the people around.And in the process of formation of individuality there is quality as kindness, or lack of character traits.
mistake many people is that they believe that the character can not be changed.People say, "leopard change his spots."However, it is not.Change can not be temperament, because we are born with it, but you can always change the character.And so if a person does not show kindness to another living being - it is not to blame.Different can serve this cause.Perhaps he did not know how to help yourself in this, how to become a good man.
In order to become a little better, you need to understand yourself, to understand what makes, for example, angry, aggressive, malevolent, envious.Sometimes it is very difficult to do, because "in my eye and you will not find a speck of dust."
For example, many causes to be angry financial disadvantage, constantly drinking spouse, child or problems with health or jealousy towards another person and so on.To understand yourself, you need to resolve this or that situation.If financial problems - changing jobs, with the drinking husband - to disperse, with the child - to establish relationships and to understand the behavior and health can be improved, the Congress, for example, to rest.Sure, it sounds easy, in fact - it is much harder, but the forces of each of us.You may need professional help, but it's all for the good of themselves.
good qualities of the soul
Among the positive traits can be identified 12 good qualities of the human soul:
- goodwill;
- responsiveness;
- unselfishness;
- honesty;
- cheerfulness;
- loyalty;
- compassion;
- willpower;
- reasonableness;
- charity;
- wisdom;
- justice.
- Goodwill - from the phrase "well-wisher", in other words - it's friendly people.
- responsiveness - willingness to help.
- Selflessness - lack of desire for profit and personal gain.
- honesty or truthfulness, - sincerity towards another person in speech, actions, actions.
- Cheerfulness - an optimistic attitude to the whole person: the circumstances and difficulties.
- Fidelity - devotional attitude toward the partner, work, idea, and so on. D.
- Compassion, empathy, compassion - emotional state, expressed in the understanding of other people's misfortunes.
- Willpower - the mental state in which a person is able to control his actions to achieve specific goals.
- Reasonableness - the ability to take the right or the right decision.
- Mercy - friendly, caring attitude toward the other person, a willingness to assist.
- Wisdom - the degree of development of knowledge and experience, and the ability of their application.
- Justice - the right decision or the correct thing to do.
Good deeds
In the world a lot of people to do good deeds.Man making a good deed will always remember and give thanks in his heart and in words.Due to the fact that in the world there are people, millions of children will recover, avoid accidents, we need there is a roof over your head, the elderly receive the necessary support and assistance, the animals acquire a home and loving owners.Good deeds can not be counted, and a good man - someone whose words and deeds are committed for the benefit.
What actions ennoble the soul
Indeed, what? good man is such because he does good things.His soul these actions ennobles man, gives facet gives it richness and breadth.
people say that life is like a boomerang returns, so a good man for his actions will always receive in return only good deeds.You should not succumb to the temptations of self-interest and, to do something bad.It should be reasonable to think and understand that all would return.
Species kindness
Kindness is of different nature.Different it is manifested.Someone so good that would not hurt a fly, but it is usually easy to use many of these people, do not give anything in return.Such a person, and sometimes he does not offer help, but if someone asks for it - not refuse.
Sometimes kindness, which manifests itself in action.Especially if it's a blessing, t. E. If the person performs any good deed when he requested to do so, but they need it.
Sometimes kindness, which manifests itself in a kind word, wise counsel.Around these people is always a great environment, since the problems are endless, often need a good and wise advice that will help in their troubles.
disinterested kindness points to help another person.It does not ask for anything in return for his action.Such people are called disinterested.Such kindness is becoming rare in modern life, even among family and close friends.
Following the selfless help of kindness is selfish.Optionally, it is something bad.For example, one man turned to others for help, promising in return to thank him.This - a mutually beneficial relationship in which both sides are usually satisfied.This format of communication - not uncommon in our time.This pattern of behavior is manifested in all spheres of life: kindergarten, school, medical facilities and others.
