Resort - zone of high erotic tension.It does not matter, soak you on the white sand in Malibu or chew barbecue in the outdoor café in Alushta.The point is not in geography, and that unique feeling of lightness and lightheartedness that covers us away from home with his concerns, the office with his constant time trouble and close friends - lovely, wonderful, but friends, it seems, until the last dash.
And then there's the sun fries and the waves splash and playful breeze brings no less playful thought.In general, the situation of the resort lazy bliss like no other, contributes to flirt with different degrees of severity, and easy nor noncommittal romance.
If you look, holiday romance - a natural phenomenon and natural.Of course, caring mothers warn their daughters maturing on such frivolities - but rest assured, they themselves have to remember that the secret of his excitement about twenty years ago visits to Yalta or Tuapse.
Besides holiday romance has to romance traditional "home", another advantage: even in the worst case, it usually does not have time to acquire mutual problems, quarrels and insults - primarily because of the short duration of the holiday season.And therefore, pleasant and easy summer memories are guaranteed.Unless, of course, do not do anything stupid.But this is, frankly, quite easy.
Holiday romance - a thing easy and not burdensome.Unless, of course, does not prevent one, but a fatal error.A single, but very, very common.And this error - an attempt to aggressively build long-term plans.
If the intensity of feeling in the resort novel reached too high a mark, willy-nilly, you start to think: maybe this is love, and with it we will live happily and die in one day?Sometimes miracles happen, but most likely it will not happen.Lightweight and unobtrusive holiday romance has a downside.First of all - the participants rarely rely on the continuation of serious relationships.
Holiday romance - whimsical and heat-loving plant in the rainy climate of large cities can not blossom.It ends with the holiday, leaving each participant pleasant memories - nothing more.Is not that enough?Sometimes - definitely.If the last day of the vacation you both understand that part stupid and painful - well, replacing the resort's novel will come other relationships, more consistent and probably more serious.We'll see.
In the meantime, you probably should not ask your friend about the resort, whether he knows how to whitewash ceilings, wallpapering, and then you just fall on the planned repairs in the apartment ... It is doubtful that this way you will be able to get an assistantin carrying out repair works - even if your new friend in one team leader of the everyday life of high quality painters, plasterers.It is much more likely that, fearing such pressure, he decides to radically rethink their plans for the holidays and quiet as promising to complete your acquaintance ...
Holiday romance - it is still for the most part the game.Including - game chat.You can tell a partner about yourself as much as you want - and he will not try to find out about what you yourself chose to remain silent.It is not necessary to confess to him that you do not like and do not know how to cook.Be quiet, you would not have to entertain his dinner - resort life, it does not matter, either in Cyprus or in the Crimea, in this sense, is very convenient abundance of cafes and restaurants for every taste and pocket.He, in turn, can not share with you the details of their latest quarrel with the chief or his wife.
In this regard, the absence of a wedding ring on the finger of a man at the spa, as a rule, it is uninformative.As well as its presence and even stories about broken his beloved wife and children, he would never abandon.They may be true, but can - only part of the line of defense that you must clearly demonstrate its unwillingness to tolerate any, even the smallest attempt on his freedom.
Men's desire for independence comes sometimes, as we know, to the point of absurdity.But why do you need because of this experience?You're going to spend with this person is not my entire adult life, and only two or three weeks of vacation.Let him enjoy these weeks on his own way.And he will certainly thank you in kind.Well, if your holiday novels destined to grow into something bigger - this is hardly something to prevent ...
All good things come to an end.This is also true for the holiday season, and to leave and of course, the holiday novel.Perhaps one has already podnadoest, and you think about your upcoming break-up, even with some impatience.Well, if one day before the departure home you sad to think that your southern tale ends too early - is, oddly enough, great.So, everything was really great, and you are guaranteed the best memories of the past summer.
Besides, you can always keep the hope for a meeting, exchanged phone numbers.Of course, he returned home and plunged into the familiar circle of care and entertainment, after a night stop dreaming about his call.Exchange phone numbers in such cases often a tribute to the conventions, allowing complete your wonderful novel, so as not to be excruciatingly painful.At least the few hours that you spend on the plane, sadly thinking about coming back to the office the following Monday ...
However, unless absolutely necessary we should not attempt to support the resort familiarity in everyday life.This does not mean that we should get away from the hotel through the back door, leaving former lover waiting with the main entrance, or disappear before the dawn of its rooms.
Firstly, it is impolite.And secondly, these same sneakers can easily play the role of Zolushkinoy shoes, seeing that the prince could no longer think of anyone other than its fleeting acquaintance.Male similar trick could easily provoke and push the most reckless actions.So do not be surprised to find one in the fall of his beloved resort standing on the threshold of your apartment with a triumphant smile on his face and the very same beach slippers in hand.
But do not go to the other extreme.From holiday romance rarely get love or friendship for life.Carefree beach very often brings people together, it is not compatible in more everyday situations.The person with whom you've spent some delightful days and nights on the coast with which you enthusiastically climbed to the top of the mountain and breathtaking engaged in sex on the beach, in the city can be a boring conversationalist, which did not talk about.So it is better to keep the heady memories of summer than to erase unpleasant memories of their subsequent meetings, were much more disappointing ...
And do not forget: even if your holiday romance was formed not so well as you would like, as it is notI am sorry.It was here, on the beach with his lazy languor and delicious temptations, it's time to afford just a little madness.And then again for many months to be intelligent, sensible and cautious.Until next vacation ...
Articles Source: psychologi.net.ru
