«... We choose, choose us ..." The familiar words of a familiar song about how sometimes the world is disgarmonichen how often the crowds, we find ourselves on the "solitude" and how agonizing and painful loneliness, of knowingthat "nobody loves me".
Faced with this situation, I think, not a single person and not once asked such a question relevant to many - how to attract love into your life, you need to do it for the sake of appearance?
Of course, this question a clear answer or recipe can not be.And yet ...
First you need to try to understand - what is wrong?Whether or not a suitable facility, who would love and who could love?Or they appear in life, but transit through a time moving to another station?Or maybe you just around the "dislike", and surrounded by no one who would radiate towards you "good feelings" of friendliness, attention and support?Look carefully to others, to events around meticulously analyze deeply, listen attentively, so to speak, in the "music of the spheres."And depending on the answer, from what conclusion you came to be and dance.
If you are aware of yourself as a person selfish with excessive demands on life and people, if looking at the world from above and think you should be, if not all, very many - to attract love to start with hard work ona.We'll have to prove to myself that "I" - is really the last letter in the alphabet, it is not the center of the Earth, and that you need to slow down in their demands become easier, kinder, more cordial.And so the question of how to attract love, the answer is: your soul "must work" day and night.Then, your friendliness and sincerity will not go unnoticed, people will be drawn to you.Remember, with what pleasure we substitute the face of the spring sun, still does not burn, but kind, affectionate, raduyuschemu especially after prolonged severe winter!Or pull your hands to heat the living fire as his body pressed against the hot stove!Why is this?Because everything is warm, good, live draws, fills tranquility, harmony, joy of life.This also applies to people.The bright, positive, friendly attract because radiate energy of goodness and love.Near well and love them!
But how to attract love if you are not egocentric, an ordinary person, just unlucky, as it seems to you?Then another question - how do you feel about yourself to yourself?You love yourself, respect, aware of their uniqueness, originality, significance?If not - this is the root of the problem or the other side of the coin.Selfishness repellent.A self-deprecation is a pity - and only.That is a pity, not love.And in this case to attract the love of others must begin with the education of self-love, with self-acceptance, forgiveness of their weaknesses, what can you not in the least clever or beautiful, as it should be, is not so successful in his career, not sointeresting and spectacular.Let it be so.But you - it is you, and another of the same man in nature simply does not exist.More often say it to yourself, smile in the mirror the most joyful and happy smile, emphasizes its advantages, argued in them!Learn to look at yourself positively.From this will change your world, your views, you will even look attractive, confident.You will get what previously dropped from the hands.You begin to radiate to the world the positive impulses of energy, how would you shout to the whole world - look at me, I am a good, nice, wonderful (if you are male - the same, only the masculine gender).It will not go unnoticed to others!You will pay attention, you will be interested.You will not be able to ignore, but from the heart to sympathize with - yes, be sure!Because how to attract love, if not the openness and trust in yourself and others?
And another important point.It should be clear to clearly imagine what it is - to be in the spotlight, to be respected, loved one for many, many different people, from their families and ending with colleagues and passers-by on the street.It is necessary to draw in the imagination of a variety of bright patterns and focus on the positive emotions, which thus arises in you.And often call these emotions in themselves.So we like to send an appeal to the Universe - to surround us with love, send traffic fate of those people with whom we will be fine.To believe in something from the heart, and that will happen.
And it really happens - gradually, as will change your inner attitude, as the birth of your new "I", as more and more clear idea of how to attract love.
