Skeptics reading the article title may be wondering: "What right does someone unknown to advise how to change life for the better?ยป
I think I can give a few of these tips, because I did it.I have changed my life.In the best possible way.
After a long and difficult divorce, I was left with two children.And then came the restructuring.And without the hard work of educating girls soon reduced to a simple problem: how to feed their daughters?In those days I had no time to think how to change life for the better.It was necessary to act.Wages are not paid for months, and the money, even if they were big, buy in the shops there was nothing.But still wanted to give the children and education.During the day I worked, then moonlighted, then helped the younger to do the lessons and the older alter-sewed costumes she worked in the theater circle.Then an older married grandson was born, the time was even less.Thinking that it is time to change your life for the better, just do not come into my head.
And then suddenly grew not only children, but even the grandson.I was not needed.I had the time?The work from which I cut, meager benefits, and ... lonely.No friends, no husband, no prospects.
Here the question of how to make a difference was the edge.The selection was small: either change or a nervous breakdown.
I began to act ridiculous and clumsy, but to act.
To start came on Simoron.There is such a site.If you decide to change your destiny, start with him.There you can lift your mood, find friends.And there are interesting sections: The Way to Wealth, Wishes, helpful and a lot of other.They like and frivolous, but started the practice of technology and dreams, I determined for myself exactly what I want.
Now I know how to make a difference.Make a list of desires, the ways of their implementation.To get rid of depression meditated.Then she pulled herself together and began to look for a job.I was no longer 40 years old, so finding a good place was more than difficult.
Cheerful Simoron had to change sites on how to look for a job, and how to organize their lives.Councils of psychologists, sociologists and employers helped me: I have a great job.Let it will be your second step: start doing what is pleasant.
Because sometimes a bad mood returned, and friends and has not appeared in the evenings I often sat on the web.On one of the forums I met the man.We have with him views on religion did not agree, we argued two weeks.Then he was on a business trip in my town.We have four years as married.
third step: Get over yourself, start looking for your soul mate.Not immediately, but you will find it.And when people have a favorite and a favorite job, we can only find friends.
We renewed old friendships, find new friends with the same interests.Some of them come and gone, leaving no trace in our lives, someone became a close friend.
visit old friends, find new ones.After all, a rolling stone gathers no moss.
Those who do not want to look for a job, new friends, a loved one, but still wondering how to change your life for the better can give advice as a psychologist (this is my first degree):
- Do not be afraid to dream.Do not limit your imagination.Dream worked regularly.Then the idea to materialize, and dreams fulfilled.For this to happen soon, make Dreamboard.
- Select purpose, arrange them in order of priority.And tends to him, despite the difficulties.Going - always reach the goal.
- Do not do what you do not like.Only doing things you love, you'll be happy with themselves.
- Do not cut yourself.In the evening, summing up the day, congratulate yourself for being particularly succeeded.Plan tomorrow.In doing so regularly, you will understand what you want and how to change life for the better.
- Indulge in little things to rejoice great.
Good luck to you!
