family - it's a place for formation of the person, and loved ones, it is important that no one can be.Therefore, family relationships play a huge, primary role in the mental development and well-being of each of its members.
Psychologists conditionally divide family prosperous and disadvantaged, constantly adjusting themselves: each family has its own problems.To reduce the problem to a minimum, to change things in your home are required elementary basic knowledge about the psychology of family and the desire to create a favorable environment in which everyone would be able to develop in a certain nature path without interference and serious disorders, complexes, misconceptions about the world,about themselves and others.
To achieve these noble goals, and for the sake of yourself, learn to build relationships within the family.Whether you're head of the family, the main mistress of the house or a child (even if you are over 20), you do not want to learn about the simple rules of communication within the family.
- does not condone rudeness, put each other down.And if this is not possible (there are mean socially dangerous cases, such as in the case of her husband, an alcoholic), reduce communication with the member of the family to a minimum.
- Learn to negotiate.Pronouncing the problem, we give understanding partner, child, parent, they are ready to discuss solutions, to reach a compromise.So show respect for each other, which is essential for the normal family relationships.
- Encourage mutual aid, compassion, the desire to hold a joint partner in various ways (you better know who he loves, what you can do for everyone - this information is to use).It is particularly important to respect this rule, to build a relationship of children in the family.If you have several of them, put emphasis on the fact that they are brother and sister (siblings), which is closer and dearer to them nobody and never will be.Repeat this all the time, children are very sensitive to parents' words.Over the years, you will see confirmation of this, your efforts and attention will not go in vain.
- How do you spend leisure time, by the way, it is very important.Separately?Okay, but you must be something in common as spouses and parents with children.Hiking in the park, pizzeria, shops, walking - all the important stuff you will unite as never before.
- also important to have family traditions.If not, it is time to invent them.Traditions unite us, it strengthens the union between husband and wife and the relationship with the children (especially important and urgent such a measure in respect of adolescents).Hike to the grandparents, own holiday, joint cooking your favorite dishes, Christmas tree decoration - it could be anything.If only tradition are respected by all.Not satisfied, it is time to think of others.
- Family relationships are based primarily on the roles and responsibilities distributed among you.Roles in your family already installed.Dad - earner or spiritual leader.My mother - a housewife or a businesswoman.But in the case of duties more complicated.Above the comfort must all work.Once shall describe, agree who is responsible for what, and you deprive the family the most common reason for quarrels.
- Keep love: in a relationship with her husband (wife) and children.It does not disappear, that on this occasion did not speak.If a family has the respect, understanding and loyalty, will and love.So, do not break your ties of fortuitous circumstances and even disasters.You and you strength.It is worth to be attentive to each other!Never forget to give time to communicate with the child and a partner, especially with their parents (they also need us, as we are in them, no matter how much time has passed since our birth).
Relationships in the family require your constant involvement, whatever role you are in is not occupied.Do not take each other for granted and as something eternal.Once admit that attitude to my family begins to crumble.Think about what this list, you can do for your family.
