man - there is not only reasonable, as is commonly believed, but also conflicting."I think, therefore, the conflict" - so you can convert an ordinary phrase.To begin with we shall understand what the conflict is and what kinds of conflicts exist.
way, often many confuse this concept with the scandal, quarrel.But it is different things.The scandal and quarrels often are destructive and are intended to bring out of balance, "finish" the other person or they happen when desperate to prove their case.Through thick and thin.
But what is a conflict?He, in contrast to the argument, it is not always destructive.Conflict - this is just a way to transition to the next level.
Many mistakenly called squabble at work and family strife conflict, but we remember that equate these concepts can not be.
most common case of family conflicts, and conflicts with the workers themselves, the so-called "internal".
Family conflicts - a natural process, and there is probably not a single family in the world, wherever they occur.Another thing is that it is necessary to solve them in a civilized way, but do not start blaming loved ones, or worse, pretend to be a victim.This is a dead end road.
What personality conflict with?The man - truly the whole universe.Every day we are faced with a choice - what to do, what to reject, what to choose and what to prefer.For example, I would like to dress well, to go for a massage and wearing quality clothing.But I know that someone from my family was a trouble, and people need help.Including material, for example, for treatment.And inside me starts looming conflict.I do not require to make a contribution to the treatment.And though I have ennye savings, I planned to say, relax in the Maldives.And now what i can do?There is an internal conflict, which speaks to man hundreds of votes.Consider the fact that these funds were given to me very hard that we had to work for two years without a vacation, on the other hand, someone needs help, and perhaps this money depends on a person's life ... How to resolve the conflict situation?In this case, the conflict - is good, since it allows finally dot the "and."Namely: I decide to finally - at what point is my charity, and at what point - self-love.Discard the rules of morality, the article is not about that.Thus, in this case - that such a conflict?Not that other, as a way of self-knowledge.And this is good.It clarifies, at least.
And what is a conflict at work?And again, I remind you this is not a squabble, gossip and intrigues.At work, a conflict arises when, say, labor obligations are unevenly distributed, where there is no social justice - ultimately there is a conflict.Despite the fact that this process is painful, but at least it is clear what is expected of you in the team, including the authorities, and that you expect.And also, do you have your general expectations of the points of contact.
Another issue is that conflict resolution should be properly without slamming doors and throwing in the face of the authorities a letter of resignation.
In psychology, there is even such a thing - the culture of conflict.Although, maybe it sounds a bit strange, but this term just means that the conflict should be addressed in a constructive direction, rather than destructive.
And the last question - who is often in conflict?Those who try to find their place in life.Inherent conflicts especially teenagers and young families who are just beginning to adjust oneself to all thinking people (speaking of internal conflict).
conflict, not stoop to quarrels and accusations.And best of all do not go on a destructive path.
